Your Second Date

Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00
Posted in category Attract Women

Provided you liked her enough to ask for a second date, now is the time to turn on the charm and to start really showing your interest. The second date is usually when the sexual chemistry starts to build and the attraction grows. This date should be more intimate and romantic. Don’t be hesitant to spend money on the second date; after all, you already know you like her. A nice, simple way to show your interest is to show up with a single flower. Or, if you know a personal tidbit about her, show her you pay attention by bringing her something personal. If she mentioned that she has a dog, take her a couple of doggie biscuits when you pick her up. No woman can resist thoughtful gestures like that! You want to impress her with your good conversation and listening skills. You want her to feel appreciated and desired. Good manners are important at this point. You want to be respectful and make her feel like a princess. Open her car door first, allow her to enter the restaurant first, let her sit down first, and pick up the tab. Yes, I said pick up the tab. At this point, unless you have discussed going “dutch” prior to the date, you should pay the bill. Your willingness to expend time and money indicates your definite interest in a woman. The end of the second date should be romantic as well. If you are driving her home, be sure to get out and walk her to her door. When you say goodnight there will probably be a little anxiety for both of you. If the mood is right, and she is looking at you, you should give her a goodnight kiss. If you kiss her on the lips, it should only be lips – no tongue. Press your lips against hers and kiss once. Then slowly pull away and smile at her. At this point follow her lead. If she offers no lead, then say goodnight and tell her you will call her tomorrow. If you do not think she is ready, at least kiss her cheek or her hand. This will let her know that you are definitely interested.