There is More to Sex than Orgasm
Thursday, October 2, 2008 21:17Orgasm is simply a form of sexual pleasure, not necessarily the most ideal form. Having an orgasm does not mean you will experience intense sexual pleasure or achieve sexual fulfillment. Giving your partner an orgasm does not make you a great lover. Yes, orgasm can feel great and make life more enjoyable, but one must not place unreasonable expectation upon it. Once orgasm becomes the sole purpose of sex, sex can become boring and unsatisfying. When orgasm is expected, it becomes a means of frustration, not a means of relaxation. Look at orgasm as if it were chocolate ice cream. Some people do not like chocolate and others are allergic to it. Even when people do like it, they usually do not want it every single time they have ice cream, and there are times when you can have it but know it is better to go without.


