A Perfect Partner Equals Perfect Sex

Thursday, October 2, 2008 21:12
Posted in category Masturbation

There are times in all relationships when your partner is not available for sex when you desire it, even when they sleep beside you. Couples frequently have different levels of sex drive and expectations regarding physical intimacy. This is why women frequently masturbate secretively in the shower, or masturbate silently in the early morning hours while their sleeping partner lies beside them. Masturbating when you have a partner is normal and a woman should not feel ashamed for doing so, most women have probably done it at some point in their relationship. It is often a necessity. Forgoing masturbation and sexual pleasure because you have a partner does harm to you and your relationship because you will slowly begin to blame your partner for your sexual frustration. As your sexual frustration grows, so does your frustration with the relationship. An affair or divorce may soon follow.

Women are Less Sexual than Men

While it is extremely untrue, the majority of people believe women are less sexual than men. We are led to believe women think about sex and desire sex much less often than men. Society frequently creates outcasts of women who are openly sexual. This results in women believing they should not have strong sexual feelings and desires. Unfortunately, many women are ashamed to admit they have a strong sex drive, they become “horny.” This results in women introverting and denying their own sexual feelings and desires. While a woman’s desire for sex may change with time as the result of hormonal influences, they are just as sexual as men. If a woman accepts that she is as equally sexual as a man, she is more likely to feel comfortable with her desire to masturbate and the frequency at which she does.