Do not ask open ended questions

Wednesday, October 1, 2008 12:19
Posted in category Seduction

Instead say open ended statements.
eg. what is she going to order
her: blah blah
you: talk… talk … talk.. I am ordering a big chocolate chip cookie and coffee. I have a special way of dipping the cookie in the coffee/milk. (installed a hook) when she asks what this is tell you will show her. Then after she gets
her stuff you go demonstrate. Make sure to eat it real sensual like. maybe feed her a bite.
What really annoys me is when a girl squeezes her way out of the question Most likely you have not put her in a mood to reveal. Instead of asking her questions, try making statements. This is more powerful and you can lead by example. Just offer up your idea of an exotic vacation. Get real creative with the details. Make her feel the
sun on her face and the excitement of exploring an exotic reef. Then you can ask, if you want, about what her ideal vacation would be and she will be lead by your example. But really you shouldn’t be asking much of anything. The dynamic you want to have happen is that both of you are offering through statements your passion, dreams and favorite sexual positions.
What you are trying to do is what alot of guys try in this group. You are trying to ellicit values.
Damn! That term should be changed. You do not need to take her values. She can take yours. You just have to get values out on the table and in the open. You can do this at the same time that you attract. Now, if you ask a girl a question and she does not give a straight answer then do not press her. This shows you care too much. Especially in the beginning, you want to come off as more into yourself than into her.
She should work to give you info. Not the other way around. Personally, I like it when girls don’t answer my questions. I even purposely ask them questions that I hope they can not answer. This demonstrates my worth when I answer for them. Now go out there and tell the ladies what you want.

Handling Compliments
A genuine, “Thank you, that is nice of you to say.” Is the best response.
If YOU are sarging HER then yes you need to act different with different girls HB 7-8 9-10 and all that.
But if you are letting her sarge you then it is alot more simple.
Your conversation needs to be alot more about you. A compliment IS about you. That is where you want things. The reason many guys feel there is a need to handle a compliment differently depending on the girl is because they do not know how to make it about themselves and panically feel they need some transition to go back into making it about her. Don’t do that. Keep it on you.

Example:
Her: “I like your jacket.”
You: “Thank you. (genuinely) I like the zipper here cause it makes me feel like an airplane pilot. Which reminds me, I was going to take flying lessons. I love the idea of flying over my hometown. That would be the ultimate date I think. Pointing out where I played little league, the park where I lost my virginity…”
Note: Please do not turn this into a routine. Routines are not good.
I’m typing off the top of my head. I can do this because I really feel this way. You have an endless source of spontaneous material when it is about you.