Entertaining a group

Wednesday, October 1, 2008 12:17
Posted in category Seduction

Check out the group before approaching. See how tight the girl is with the guys. You do not have to always open with the guys. If she doesn’t seem tight with the guys then open with her or the group in general. Myself, I do not spend much time befriending guys in groups. A big waste of time really. Just a friendly word or two is all you need. Further, the gender make up of the group is not really that important. It is more the number of people which is important. A three-person group is great.
You chat with your target and the two others, in this case guys, can chat with each other. On the other hand a two set is the most challenging to work for guys like me who sarge primarily alone. In that case I sarge both girls simultaneously. There is a whole separate science to that but I’ll leave that to another post. Back to your group question. Don’t worry about entertaining. All you need is an opener. Once you are in with your group then concentrate on being interesting, not entertaining. Do not be tempted to rely on props or gimmicks. These will help you short term but harm your abilities long term. Learn to rely 100% on yourself.
Work on your tone and express a range of emotions. Show the group where you are coming from with your feelings and values. People will listen to that and they will all like you for it. Do not get people excited about the things you are talking about. Instead get them excited about you.
Hold the group for a brief minute and then when you have them at a high point let everyone know you want to talk with the girl one on one.

Miscellaneous Points
• Trying to win over her friends before getting in with her is just a waste of time unless those friends are going to cock-block you?
If you work on winning those friends, which she probably has contempt for, you run the risk of looking like you are trying to please people she believes are below her. Not a good thing and again a waste of time.
• You go in with your target, put your arm around her waist, turn to her friends and ask her to introduce you to them. Then, if you want to entertain or charm her friends you have her ‘approval’ backing you up?
• In most instances it is best to approach one (your target)and then quickly include the others as they give you their attention?
This will put you next to your target and yet polite to the people in her group. After the girl has introduced you to her friends and you can either talk to them some more or resume one on one with your target without the friends CBing. It’s smooth this way.