Comebacks

Wednesday, October 1, 2008 12:20
Posted in category Seduction

You had the girl where you wanted her – chasing you.
Do not ask her a question here, that will turn around the dynamic which is already in your favor.
Your first impulse should be to get her to further question you.
Her: “Are you Steve?”
You: “Funny you should mention that because I have a brother who is named Steve. He can do the most amazing trick with his tongue.”
Her: “What trick?”
You: “Here. Have a seat and I’ll try to show you….”

Silencing strong opinions/beliefs/feelings etc. Sounds like you are passionate about many things in life. Instead of feeling that it is a handicap when sarging, consider that it may be a strength. We humans are all attracted to passionate people. You just need to harness it into productivity. You are just the sort of person who would feel natural using juggler method of not asking values of girls and then feeding them back to her but instead getting her to ask and accept your values.
Here is what to do. When in with a girl or group of girls talk about YOUR values. You would be great at this.
Just be sure to make it constructive. Do it in a way where you can phrase everything in a positive way. Always end with a solution or an alternative to anything you dislike. This will let girls know that there is a path they can follow to match your values.
See, many guys into seduction think they have to match a girl’s values. That is not true. Values have to be matched but it should go the other way. Guys just don’t know how to give a girl an easy path to do that.
So give them your values and show them how they can make the leap from their own to yours. You do this by talking in a way which offers constructive, positive paths follow.
For example: Say, “It makes me angry when wild animals are caged for people’s amusement. They should be as free as possible. I like the idea of getting away from zoos and towards open refuges. I have contacts in this great refuge. I send them twenty dollars every month.”
Now a girl can see a way to please you. You have given her an actual action she can take to please you. Girls like this sort of thing. She knows she can give you twenty dollars and you will forward it to a good cause.
State what you are for. Try to be as constructive as possible with your passions. And give her a way to please your values.
Here are more examples:
” I like spending time with my nieces and playing like I am six years old. Do you have any nieces or nephews?”
Here you give her a chance to tell you how she also likes playing with kids and using hr imagination.
” I like girls who like to kiss.” Pretty obvious how she can match this value.
You can think up many more. Just decide what you want in a girl and in life and convey these things in a positive and constructive way which she and everyone around you can imagine themselves being able to do. Show them the path to doing what you would like them too.