Huntresses, Have Sex with a Man as a Man Wants It
Tuesday, September 30, 2008 22:23Huntresses, turnabout is fair play. If we expect the new man to put more romance in his sex, it’s only fair for the new woman to put more sex in her romance.
Any woman who has ever been in love knows one thing: Love makes good sex hotter. Any man who has ever been in love knows another: Good sex makes love hotter. Yet centuries after this discovery, males and females lie gazing at each other across the pillow, secretly wishing the other partner would get it right.
I’ve said it. Better writers than I have proclaimed it. You can’t even slip through the supermarket checkout counter without some women’s magazines bombarding you with the message of how to attract a man: Be hotter! Be sexier! Be wilder! Have more fun in bed! Play! If you have serious intentions of capturing your Quarry’s heart, yes, you must be hotter, sexier, and wilder, have more fun in bed, and play.
Think back to when you were a little girl, rolling around in the sandbox with the other kids, giggling, wiggling, talking, and building sand castles. You used your imagination to have fun. Little girls in the euphoria of the moment, throwing sand in the air and shouting ”Whee!” aren’t having an inner dialogue with themselves. They aren’t asking themselves, “Does my playmate really like me? Is he just using me to build sand castles? Should I fake having more fun? Is he expressing enough affection? Why doesn’t he shout ‘Whee,’ too? Isn’t he enjoying it? Uh-oh, will he play in the sandbox with me when we get back to the city?”
Children, lost in a wonderland of sensual pleasure, let their imaginations run wild. They turn their concerns off and their fantasies on. Well, bed is the adult sandbox—the place to giggle, wiggle, talk, and build fantasy castles. It’s the place to let your imagination run wild. Bed is the place to turn your concerns off and your fantasies on.
One of the more surprising gender differences is that, during sex many men retain this childlike quality. Like Alice lost in Wonderland, a man can get lost in fantasyland. He is better able to suspend reality and tune into his erotic imagination—not because he has a greater imagination, but because his concerns interfere with his pleasure and potency.
Huntresses, this does not mean that men do not crave caring, affection, and love, but when the bedroom door is closed and the lights go down, he wants to lose himself in total sensuality, i.e., have raw sex. “Curiouser and curiouser,” as Alice would say, is the fact that after several great sessions of raw sex, when no love was spoken of, a man’s thoughts are more apt to turn to love.
How can Huntresses express raw sex? Again, perhaps the avalanche of books and articles falling on our heads hasn’t made a dent in our hairstyles. And again, a moving picture is worth a million words.


