Master strokes
Tuesday, September 30, 2008 8:11THE MOTION OF THE OCEAN
It’s a hot summer night in 1972, and I’m in my neighborhood, an area of mostly Americans of African descent.
My partners and I are attending a Saturday night basement party in which we have paid our 25-cent entry fee.
Under a red light, in a humid room packed full of couples slow dancing to that famous love song group the “Delfonics”, I have just made the girl I am dancing with, climax for the 3rd time in four songs just by my “moves” against her hot body.
All of us teenagers are doing a very sexual dance that has been prevalent in the community since I can remember, and from what I understand, it originated in Africa Centuries ago.
It was whispered about in hushed excitement whenever the older adults weren’t around and was practiced as a form of safe sex for women & a means of getting the women “Hot” by the men. The then current name of this dance was the “Grind” & it’s basically fully clothed ‘Sex’.
The essence of this dance is a secret as to why Black men hold a mystique around the world in the arena of sexual prowess. In my travels around the world, I have encountered many Women from many diverse cultures, who to my amazement were very curious about and eager to have sex with me. This is because of the stories that pass around from person to person about the sexuality of the Black man. Women pass the stories along about “Great Sexual Passion and Lust that melted their hearts and wills,”…. Men on the other hand distort the stories bring it down to” Penis Size”which is a falsehood !
Oh, you thought it was our mythical third limb ? Are the stories about our Huge penis true ?
No I say, & I can speak for more than just me,..
For I have lived in close quarters with thousands of Black men and men of all “races” from all over the globe while I served those many years in the Armed Forces,&I’ve been part of many a “long time no port Orgies”where up to 15 men, pay for up to 30 women, in a huge hotel room, and “go at it all night,”ordering food and drink as we enjoy ourselves. So believe me when I tell you that Size doesn’t run in “races”.”So” some ask, ” are you sure that it isn’t Great oral sex that’s your secret ?”
No !
There’s a long running joke in Black neighborhoods about the man who has to resort to ” Eating that Putang”( oral sex ) to satisfy their women.
Hmmm, what are the secrets that we hold dear like a winning hand of cards ?
The origin starts in Africa & is set in motion by the Drum. The great secrets are “Movement, Positioning & Speed” & they can be learned No matter what your culture of origin is.
To begin, you need to first remember that the first two inches of a woman’s vagina holds most of her pleasure nerves.
So the three very important African factors must come into play here ;
1) Speed; strokes should be at a speed where she can feel it. Most men make the mistake of pounding away at a furious pace. This is a waste of time in most cases unless it is done at the right time & I’ll explain why.
We have interviewed hundreds of women on this subject and with the exception of the very few who have
been abused for so many years, their nerves have been numbed to the point of feeling only the most rough stimulation,……………………………………………
For the vast majority of women, except for the few seconds right before she climaxes, the bang, bang, bang, style of love making ranges from painful, to just plain boring simply because feeling usually shuts down, as soon as he starts the pounding ! Please read this section carefully and remember it !! We cannot stress this subject enough. Skin carried sexual feeling to the brain 10 times more efficiently when it is stimulated at a slower rate. Take this test, Please,.. and you will learn a very important lesson that will move you miles ahead of most men on the road to being the lover that Women Crave.
Next time you Begin’ a session,… as soon as you achieve erection, place both non-lubricated hands on top of one another in fists, so there is a continual hole’ that runs through both.
Now push your penis through your fists roughly and fast all the way to the base at least 10 times as if you were ‘fucking’ someone.
Feel the danger of tearing your skin ?
Feel the pain as the fists bang into your family jewels, your balls’?
Does this feel very Sexual’ to you? Hate it?
Unless of course you’re deeply into Sado Masochism.
That is exactly what women feel,…and more,…..
keep in mind that our skin as men, is on the outside and is dry and tough in comparison . Women on the other hand, their organs are on the inside, wet and tender as a rose pedal. Doesn’t take a genius to figure out the tearing, as well as the pounding of the reproductive organs (ovaries) that women can feel. Is the same as shaft tearing and ball pounding.
Keep this in mind at all times when you enter them.
Women want when you are in them to move lovingly & need to feel that skin on skin rubbing to start that fire. Women hate the wham bam’ man.
So whether you are having a short hot “Quickie” or a long passionate all niter, work with controlled passion’ instead of aggressive banging.
See the sex act as a race, in which you will pace yourself, starting slowly, then moving a little faster in the middle, then at the end go all out & win the race.
A partial exception to this rule, is where the Female is already very hot, wet, & loose, and Burning passion must be quenched within a short period of time.
However, read on to find out how to get the best results from this situation.
2. Angle of attack; In the vagina about 1-1/2 to 2 inches inside,
the upper wall at from either 11 o’clock to 1 o’clock but normally at the 12 o’clock position lies the vaginal orgasmic trigger.
To stimulate it, requires 1st the knowledge of its position, then the best angles of penile thrusting, to stimulate it.
The favored position in the Afro American community is the ‘Doggy Style’. This position is fantastic for more reasons than any other.
A. It rubs the head of the penis directly on the vaginal trigger when the man pulls almost all the way out on his stroke.
B) It gives the man & woman a lot of control as to where they want to aim the strokes, and allows that circular movement that women most women interviewed, love. Circular movement is rotating the hips in a circle during the stroke, either from side to side or up & down or a combo of both.
D. Ultimate deepness or shallow thrusting is all under control.
All positions where the man is behind or to the side will afford you great angles of thrusting & more importantly for you, it will allow you to pace yourself to utilize your CLIMAX CONTROL TECHNIQUES.
However Any position can be utilized & made to work for you if you keep the 1st 2 inches in mind while you do your stroking & Unless your mate is versed in the Female form of JOJIDO, you must remain the GUARDIAN of the thrust. A huge advantage of face to face intercourse is that eye to eye contact that you can have. This can be very important to some females as it gives a feeling of extra togetherness.
Another plus for the face to face is the ability to easily kiss, a factor not to be taken lightly, especially at the moment of her climax.
3. length of stroke; The head of the penis was designed not only ease of penetration, & for our own stimulation but to drive the female crazy. Therefor your stroke should be designed to do exactly that !!
Certain women have not learned to climax vaginally but with a new method you are about to learn, this will not be a factor and soon she should be able to make the connection and break that vaginal climax barrier.
Use your strokes at first shallowly ! This serves two very important functions.
1. In the beginning the female needs to be opened slowly & tenderly like a flower opens to the sunlight in the dawn !
Too fast an opening will wilt the flower, so go slow and use the head of the penis to do what it was designed to do.
What is called the “Sausage & Bun” or S.B. & is designed to bring climax to those clitoris climax only females.
Use your penis head to rub along the length of the vagina up and down from the opening to the clitoris at a speed of about 2 seconds for the up & 2 down. This is best done from the back, or doggy position because you can, depending on the type of erection you have, do this hands free, but if you must use your hands, this is normal too.
Do this for as long as you can, until she is begging you enter her, then push only the head in the opening, back out & in only the head, letting her feel the delicious feeling of the initial penetration over & over.
Then repeat the S.B. pull out & slide the head up & down the outside up to her clitoris & repeat for a while,
then return to the penetration, but this time go a little deeper but not past 2 inches.
Stay in control no matter what she says, no matter how she begs, you must be the master of the session.
She will thank you later Guaranteed !!
Slowly increase your depth until you are all the way inside of her as if digging a hole a bit at a time, then when you reach all the way to the hilt, alternate shallow strokes with deep & S.B. & move to a slightly faster speed as you feel her excitement building.
Don’t forget your Climax control skills.
When you feel her getting ready to explode, you can either, cease stimulation, & pause then stroke the fire back up to full flame, or give her that furious, but controlled circular thrusting.
Note, that if you delay her gratification a few times, her climax will be of a GREATER FORCE !!.


