Penis Enlargement

Pre-masturbation means having sex alone about two to four hours before the big event. The method is based on the fact that most of us are less sensitize and have less desire after cuming. Are you? I know I am. As I’ve already mentioned, in my 50s I sometimes can’t get and stay hard for hours or days after ejaculating. The problem with this technique is that one’s level of arousal is only part of what contributes to involuntary squirting. If you’re still lead around by your little head and its hypnotic urge to cum, you’ll only gain a few minutes. It’s true, it may take you a bit longer the second time before you approach 9.9. But if you’re not intimately aware of your level of arousal at each moment, you may have the same trouble slipping over the edge once your arrive. If you haven’t mastered peaking just short of the point of no return, you’re likely to arrive and depart at the cuming station quickly.

If pre-masturbation doubles your time of lasting from five minutes to ten minutes, you might consider it progress. But face it, it’s far short of what Tantric mastery will allow you to do. Creams Desensitizing creams are products which claim to lessen the sensations felt by men during intercourse so that they can last longer. I haven’t tried them, but it makes sense from a purely physical point of you, doesn’t it? A shot of Novocain in the dickhead is enough to scare anyone away from cuming. But if one of these creams works on you and makes sex less pleasurable by decreasing stimulation, it’s kind of a self-defeating win-lose victory. It might feel good in your mind if you can last longer, but if it’s only fun for your partner, how often will you want to do it? Wouldn’t you rather have more intense sensations lasting for hours if you could swing it? Sounds like a much better win-win to me.

Condoms If you’re careful about safe sex like most everyone I know, you’re aware that condoms do reduce the amount of stimulation you experience during sex. Using condoms to protect against STDs and unwanted regnancies already make them highly recommended. (By the way, there’s some valuable information in Chapter 8 about lessening your risk and making sex smart.) Some men find that wearing a condom helps them last longer by lowering their arousal. I’ve even heard that some men use more than one condom to decrease their sensitivity even more. Again, it can take you longer to get to the point of no return, which is good. But when you arrive at the edge of the cliff with those wonderful feelings swirling around you, will you be able to handle it any better? I find not.

So you’ll still need the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution.

Relaxing Your ejaculation mastery exercises begin with the R of RAMPER, for relaxing. We’ve already covered why this is vital, because ejaculation is often triggered by tension in the pelvis, butt, or mind. Calm and relaxed is the ideal state for lovemaking, so that there’ll no tension to prevent the natural flow of orgasmic energy. When you relax and awaken your senses, which we’ll work on next, you can more easily replace the rush to climax with the desire to savor each sensation in every moment. Exercise: Corpse Posture There’s a Yoga position called the corpse posture which is a good place to start making relaxation a sensual discipline.

1) Lie down on your back and close your eyes. Use a pillow under your knees and neck if needed for comfort.
2) Spread your legs slightly and let your arms fall away from your body with your palms up.
3) Imagine the weight of your body pressing down into the earth while being entirely supported all around.
4) Just let all the tension in your body go completely, allowing all your muscles to relax. Let your mind to float free.
5) Focus on the slow steady natural rhythm of your breathing. Let that be the only thing you’re aware of while your mind relaxes.
6) Just float this way for 20 minutes while you witness what your mind and body experience. You can practice this regularly before other exercises or anytime you want to dissolve any of the stresses that you accumulate uring normal life.

Some find that by recording these instructions on an audio tape and listening to them in their own voice helps them relax more and faster.