How Can Tantra Help?

Wednesday, September 24, 2008 12:11
Posted in category Penis Ejaculation

Being an ancient spiritual science of sacred sex, how can Tantra help? The primary answer is that Tantra is about mastering your own energy. I’m not referring to some obscure imaginary new age airy-fairy phenomenon here. I’m talking about physical stuff you feel all the time. How do you become aware of being turned on, or angry, or nervous, or in love? Your internal energy causes sensations in your body. It’s what acupuncturists and massage therapists work with every day. To be sure, at first the energy that Tantric adepts work with seems finer or subtler than a punch in the face or a mouth sucking you off. But ultimately, subtle energy can be much more powerful than hard fast pumping. That reminds me of a reserved female business associate at her first Tantra workshop who experienced an hour of powerful non-stop orgasmic vibrations shaking her whole body just from a basic breathing exercise. Some say that women are generally more sensitive to energy. Maybe so, but of course guys feel it, some of us strongly. What causes goose bumps? A chill down your spine? Shivers or ticklishness? Or more directly on our subject, how about that tingly warm feeling in your crotch when you see a very shapely female form swaying a wide path down the sidewalk? When we refer to energy in Tantra, we mean the nervous stimulation and physical excitation that causes these feelings. You feel energy strongest just before an orgasm, thus the term “orgasmic energy.” But it’s all the same electrical or magnetic stuff in your body. Regardless of what’s causing your dissatisfaction with your lovemaking skills, energy is at the root of it. Tantra teaches how to conjure up orgasmic energy, heighten your senses of its effects, magnify its impact, and circulate it around the body. Why bother learning how to channel energy? Because if it all stays in your cock, the easiest direction for it to move is outwards. And then you cum. Spread that sexual energy around and you feel great all over without a sudden big gush. As a result, you can have lots of little energy gushes which get bigger and bigger and bigger, culminating in a long series of dry internal energy orgasms. You have so much exuberance bubbling inside you. Celebrate that wonderful orgasmic energy that makes you cum. If you can master the movement of this powerful energy, why limit these wonderful desires that spring to life? All you need to learn is directing that powerful urge to cum inward instead of outward. That’s why this is the Ultimate ECSTATIC Solution, learning to distribute and extend that ecstatic energy.

So you’ll know what to expect, let me introduce you to some of the basic Tantra principles you’ll find appearing in this approach over and over…

• Relax and go with the flow, allowing natural forces to run their course.
• Don’t be inhibited and resist healthy impulses,
• Be supremely conscious of everything while watching and enjoying.
• Be present in the moment and open your physical senses.
• Make love on multiple levels: sex, heart, and spirit.
• Focus on pleasure in the moment, not simply on achieving the big O,
• You are responsible for your own pleasure and responses.
• Know what you desire, what your boundaries are, and voice them.
• Empty your mind of goals and anxieties, letting sex become a timeless blissful meditation.
• Allow orgasm to become a sacred energy event, SEPARATE from physical ejaculation.

Now doesn’t that sound much better than learning tight control, always watching yourself, trying not to slip, and feeling bad when you do?