It is all mental stimulation.

Phone Sex
Phone sex is dirty talk on steroids.
In phone sex, you can get very raunchy, and she can respond powerfully to them. You start off easy and then slowly ramp it up to be extremely explicit and crude and rude.
You can get away with things in phone sex that you have not yet been able to get away with in person. Some day they may be possible.
In phone sex, you bring her through experiences mentally. Once she has experienced it in her imagination, once she has made it real in her mind, and it is associated with heightened sexual arousal, she can later experience it in person.
Because it is phone sex, it is just a fantasy, and so she can go along with it. But once she experiences it in her mind, it has become real for her subconscious. And thus, it can later become true.

New Orgasms In New Ways
Orgasms are the convincer! Without wild screaming orgasms, nothing will work.
Give her new orgasms in new ways.
If she’s never had an orgasm, give her her first orgasm. If she’s never had a vaginal orgasm, give her a vaginal orgasm. If she’s never had an anal orgasm, give her an anal orgasm. If she’s never had a nipple orgasm, give her a nipple orgasm. If she’s never had an instant orgasm on command, give her an instant orgasm on command.
Bring her through these new experiences. They are powerful convincers that increase her responsiveness to you.
But it’s not just that you give her orgasms, it’s that you have a lot to say about when and how long she has an orgasm. Be dominant!
The “Yes” ladder
Lawyers have a saying “A lawyer never asks a question in court that he does not already know the answer to.” I would add to that “A
true lover never asks a question in bed that he does not already know the answer to be ‘Yes.’”
Get her sequentially saying yes.
“You love it when I do this.” “Yes.”
“It feels so good when I do this.” “Yes.”
“This makes you so excited, doesn’t it?” “Yes.”
“You want me to ____.” “Yes.”
This sets up a pattern for her following your lead.

Fantasies And Role Play
Get to know her fantasies. Describe them back to her as you masturbate her.
Make up some fantasies. Lead her mentally through those fantasies as you masturbate her.
Introduce new fantasies using phone sex.
Use Role Play to act out fantasies. Since it’s just “make believe” she can feel much more comfortable about playing the part.
Once she has played the part, it has become real for her in her mind, and she is much more apt to actually do it for real.

Expand Her Sexual Experiences
With you, she’s going to do all those things she dreamed about experiencing, and even some she never dreamed about.
You are going to lead her through these experiences, such that you and her are going to experience these things together in real life.
You are always pushing the envelop just a little bit. Little baby steps at a time.
All of these things that you bring her through continue to open her up, continue to release that massive sexual potential.

The Power Of Possessive
It is a bad thing to be possessive of your woman from a relationship standpoint. It demonstrates fear and weakness.
But in the context of heightened sexual arousal, it is a very powerful thing to be possessive of your woman.
“Who’s naughty little slut are you?” “Yours, Daddy.”

Piece Of Property
And for the really advanced level (brace yourself) treat her like a piece of property.
Bring her to a fetish party and pull her around by a collar and leash.
Make her wear lingerie and heels around the house as you ignore her.
After doing this for an appropriate amount of time, you then take her and use her to get off.
Apply with a thick coating of dirty talk.

Total Surrender
Get her to the point of total surrender, making her completely naked to you in every way; physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

Post Coital Re-Bonding
After an emotionally powerful sexual experience, you MUST ground her again. You must make her feel close to you and secure
with you. You must demonstrate to her how very important she is to you and how much you appreciate her. You must re-establish that emotional connection and intimacy.
This prevents her from later feeling sleazy and cheap, it makes her become even closer to you, and it makes her look forward to the next episode even more.