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The first step to success is to CHOOSE WISELY!

Every man has his preferences, but to find a highly responsive woman, the most important things to look for in a woman are: intelligence, imagination, deservedness, and sexuality. If you find a woman with all of those traits, you are in for one wild ride.
Intelligence is the biggest indicator of suggestibility. The more intelligent, the more powerfully she will respond to your suggestions. Intelligence is almost completely genetically determined. There is some aspect of environment, such as if she came from a family that values education. And besides, intelligent women are infinitely more interesting.

Imagination is the component that you will make use of to make things real for her. If she has a very good imagination, you can make anything real for her. If she does not, you are going to be continually frustrated. Imagination is usually closely related to intelligence, but not always. Imagination seems to be determined by genetics, but can be somewhat determined by environment. You can easily determine the imaginative ones by simply observing if they are making real the things you are talking about.
Deservedness is what a woman believes she deserves for herself. Mark is always harping on us for this. You have to find a woman who has a good sense of deservedness.

If the woman does not have a good sense of deservedness, you will be forever frustrated, your energy will be constantly drained, and the relationship is doomed. She cannot appreciate a good man when she’s got one. She will sabotage the relationship and eventually leave for some scum that she believes she deserves. If you aren’t a psychiatrist or a therapist, there’s not much you can do about it.

On the other hand, a woman who does have a good sense of deservedness will be your best ally. She will be routing for you. She believes that she deserves to experience wonderful pleasure, and she believes that she deserves you.

A good sense of deservedness is the opposite of a bad sense of deservedness. (Note: everybody has A sense of deservedness.) An example of a bad sense of deservedness is a woman who stays with a controlling man. Therefore, one of the quickest ways to obtain much information about a woman is to note the men she associates with.

Deservedness is entirely environmentally determined. A person’s sense of deservedness begins to develop early in life. I have found that women who had a close relationship with their father when they were little girls have a very good sense of deservedness. Such a woman is a ‘daddy’s girl.’

A ‘daddy’s girl’ is a woman who had a very close relationship with her father when she was a little girl. He was loving and caring. He believed in her and supported her. He may have even taught her how to throw a baseball or throw a punch. She thus grew up with a high self esteem, a healthy relationship with men, and a good sense of deservedness. She is thus emotionally healthy and believes that she deserves to be treated well by men. Interestingly, she is also very skilled at influencing men and making a man feel emotionally close to her.

This is in contrast to another woman who had a condescending or absent father. Such a woman is incapable of forming a deep emotional bond with a man. She has a bottomless pit of emotional need that can never be filled. She believes that she deserves to be treated poorly by men, though she expects being showered with attention and material gifts. She is often spotted in the company of men that view women as things.

Daddy’s girls also tend to be talkative. I love talkative women. They have an opinion and they can sustain a conversation. This is in contrast to another woman who needs to be constantly entertained.

Her relationship with her mother is also important. I have known daddy’s girls who had mothers that were total emotional basket cases and made very bad decisions for themselves. In those cases, the young women tend to make bad decisions for themselves. To a large extent, women tend to repeat the same successes or failures of their mothers. Such daddy’s girls display some of the typical traits of a daddy’s girl, such as good eye contact, hearty handshake, and confident posture, but they make mistakes such as choose men poorly or have no direction in life. The very best women are those who had two good parents in a good relationship.

When I am getting to know a woman, I always steer the conversation to find out what her relationship with her father was like. Her response will heavily weigh in my decision. Also, I will at some point pay her a compliment. If she replies with a genuine “Thank you” then that’s a good sign. If she responds by denying it or belittling it, that’s a bad sign. I will also get conversation to where I ask her about her past relationships, what was good about them and what was bad about them. This gives me a very good idea about her sense of deservedness.

In Mark’s “Building a Better Girlfriend” Ross asked Mark how you know if a woman has a good sense of deservedness. Mark replied “You look for goals. If she says she wants to be a dancer, or she wants to get married and have children, or she wants to feel loved; those are all good indications. But if she says she wants what her friends have, that’s a bad thing.” Mark defines a woman having a good sense of deservedness as a woman who is open to new learning and can look at her mind in new ways.
We as men also need to have a good sense of deservedness. As Mark says, we need to rise above the poverty mentality and we need to believe that we deserve that which will make us wildly happy. “Use this on yourself guys.” (BaBGF.)

The two biggest factors to the success or failure of a relationship are respect and a good sense of deservedness. In all the failed relationships I have witnessed, either one, or both, is not present.

Sexuality: A highly sexual woman lives and breathes sexuality. Everything in her life has a sexual meaning. Sexuality flows through her veins. Sexuality is in every aspect of her life. These women tend to have very acute senses, usually taste, smell, touch, and hearing. Such a woman is going to be an enthusiastic lover.

Sexuality is very different from promiscuous. Promiscuous women are endlessly seeking the approval of men. They offer what they think men want, their body. They may have a lot of sex, but it is not for the sake of expressing any kind of sexuality, it is just a tool for seeking the approval of men, or manipulating men.

But highly sexual women are more secure in themselves sexually and require no further validation. They do not base their value on what men think of them. They tend to be in long term serious relationships. In between relationships, they can go for a long time without a man. They do not tend to engage in recreational sex. Sex has a much deeper meaning for them and is tied into so many other aspects of who they are. A sexual woman will, however, begin sexual relations quickly upon finding a suitable man.

Sexuality seems to be determined genetically. At a very young age, such a woman had been asking herself questions about sexuality, looking for answers in whatever magazines she could find, and fantasizing about sexuality. Unfortunately, as happens all too often, sexuality can be seriously damaged by traumatic experiences. Such wounds are almost never healed.
So how do you test for all these things in a conversation?

When I meet a woman, the first thing I test for is a good self esteem. Somewhere in the conversation, I will pay her a compliment and see how she responds. If she belittles the compliment or down plays it, I know she has a low self esteem. The compliment will tend to break rapport, as it should. But if she takes the compliment well, such as responding with a genuine “Thank you!” then it may be possible that she has a good self esteem. The compliment will tend to increase rapport, which is what I want.
The next thing I test for is self assuredness and intelligence. Is she engaging? Is she interested in our conversation? Does she further the conversation? Does she have something to say? Is she passionate about something?

Her eyes tell much. If they are shinny and bright, that is a good sign. If her eyes dilate when I describe something, that is a very good sign. That last one is a very important one. I watch to see if the woman is imagining what I am describing, and being engaged in what I am describing. If so, the chances are good that she is suggestible. A highly critical requirement.

Then I will test for “Daddy’s girl.” I will say to her “Wow, it is obvious that you have a very good self esteem. That is refreshing. I bet you had a close relationship with your father when you were a little girl.” If she didn’t, it will tend to break rapport, as it should. But if she did, then it always servers to increase rapport in a massive way. Usually she will ask why I say that, and I will go into my “Daddy’s girl” theory. The Daddy’s Girls always love it. But the ones who were not Daddy’s Girls will go into a long illogical discourse attempting to explain why they have a high self esteem.

Then I will test for sexuality. And I don’t mean adventurous, or spontaneous, or promiscuous. I mean sexuality. And it is very easy to test for. I simply explain to them how I believe that sexuality is very different from adventurous, spontaneous, or promiscuous. The highly sexual women light up and respond powerfully. The non-sexual women look at me with a blank stare because they have no clue what I am talking about.

One of the best ways to learn a lot about a woman is to look at the men she associates with. I will eventually get the conversation onto the subject of her past relationships. I will listen for signs of how she was treated by her men. That describes how she will be most comfortable. If her men did not concern themselves with pleasing her, that is a very bad sign. But if all her men were very interested in her pleasure, then that is a very good sign. They are the women who will most appreciate, and best respond to me.

Some might say “So many tests. It takes the human aspect out of it.”

Women test men all the time. Each woman has preferences and past experiences. Each will ask the man questions, they will challenge him, they will put opportunities before him; and in each case, they will watch how he responds. When he is personally and sensually powerful, his responses to her testing will bring her closer to him.

The neat thing about her tests is: the man doesn’t need his own original material; she will provide everything he needs. This is especially true for those women who really know what they want, i.e. Daddy’s girls.