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Being a masterful lover is not about experience. There are plenty of men who are experienced but boring lovers. I know many women who divorced such guys.
Here is a letter that appeared in a national magazine. Mark Cunningham read this to his students in one of his seminars:
I’m a single average looking business man in [...]

Being a masterful lover is about knowledge and beliefs.
Knowledge in that you seek to understand and appreciate women, that you know female anatomy, that you know how to give women orgasms, and that you are educated about human sexuality.
Beliefs in that you have healthy beliefs about sexuality, that you understand that women are highly sexual [...]

Too many men seek power from outside themselves. They will part with great amounts of money in order to try to buy some magic bullet. There is no such thing as a magic bullet. Furthermore, they are not assuming responsibility for their own outcome.
Too many men are busy running around trying to get as many [...]

Being sensually powerful means to understand and appreciate the sexual potential in a woman, and having the passion to bring it out in her, to bring it all to life.
To enable a woman to discover her own sense of personal and sensual power.
It is about sharing. It is about two people celebrating being human beings.
She [...]

All of us were born sexual creatures. Everything about us is such that we may mature and procreate. And we are such that it is all pleasurable and fulfilling.
But for some of us, somewhere along the line, something went very wrong. Shame, guilt, self consciousness, or self doubt set in, and anything about sexuality became [...]

Take it from a new perspective. In the living room you treat her with respect like the lady that she is. In the bedroom, you respect the fact that she wants to be fucked like the slut that she loves to be (in the context of respect.) And you respect that about her.

We have all been hurt. We can all think of that girl that dumped us and broke our heart. It is normal for us to take it all so personally. We only had our own perspective to view things from.
I was once hurt very badly. I had been married for 8 years. My wife and [...]

This is one of the most important things men need to understand, and it is one of the toughest things for men to understand.

In fact, women are far more sexual than most men can even comprehend.
I first realized this years ago. . . .
After my divorce in 1992, I felt very defeated and alone. I had custody of our two small children, and thus in the evenings I was stuck at home. So, after I put the children [...]

Movies, television shows, stories, what other people told us, what our parents told us, all that “social programming,” told us that we had to talk women into having sex. It almost made it seem as if sex for a woman was a chore she performed as a reward.
That single misguided piece of social programming had [...]

Women actually WANT to have sex! Not as a reward to ‘a nice guy,’ but simply because WOMEN LOVE SEX!
That, along with the stories that women shared with me over the phone, along with all the factual evidence from reality, clearly showed that not only do women love sex, but in fact women are far [...]

That does NOT mean that women want to be raped. Certainly NOT! Rape destroys a woman’s sexuality for life.
But in the context of consent, mental stimulation, emotional rapport, and trust, women love to be taken and ravaged like the sluts that they love to be.
Now that does NOT mean that women want to be sluts. [...]

You are getting the correct knowledge by studying this program, and you are replacing your self limiting beliefs with empowering beliefs.
It is an ongoing endeavor. You will always be improving. Don’t think that it will ever end, or that you will “get there.” Accept the fact that you, and I, and all men who want [...]

Women want sex. Women love sex. Women are highly sexual creatures. And you’re the man who’s going to oblige her needs!
You’re the man who’s going to leverage her emotional soul to connect with her, her romantic heart to entice her, her innate sensuality to excite her, and her downright horniness to satiate her, and then [...]

Live by those words.
What that means is that when she is feeling very sexual and highly aroused, things that may otherwise sound very disrespectful, will NOT be taken as disrespectful. In fact, they will actually INCREASE her excitement.
But you have to do it with absolute conviction. if you don’t, the dirty talk will crash and [...]

Obtaining the proper knowledge, based upon facts from reality, is the way to empowering beliefs.
The most important knowledge to obtain, that will improve beliefs the most, is the knowledge to give women incredible pleasure.
When you know that you can give women sexual experiences beyond anything she has ever imagined, you massively improve your confidence.
Confidence is [...]

To begin, you must first know female anatomy.
Side view of female anatomy
Pelvic view of female anatomy
The clitoris is rich with sensitive nerve endings. It is by far the most sensitive tissue of a woman’s sex organs. About 70% of women achieve orgasm from clitoral stimulation.
The vagina is the next most sensitive. But the sensitivity of [...]

We are going to discuss male anatomy here because we will later make comparisons of it with female anatomy, for reasons that will become clear later.
Side view of male anatomy
At the time of arousal, the Cowper’s gland secretes a lubricant into the urethra to facilitate the passing of ejaculate. Sperm passes from the testicles to [...]

In early fetal development, from about 5 to 7 weeks, both male and female genitalia are identical. They begin the same, but then develop differently.
View of 7 week fetus external genitalia
Not drawn to scale
In the female genitalia, the phallus, what appears to be a small penis, stops developing and becomes the clitoris. In the male [...]

What is the purpose of the female orgasm? Simple. When women are naturally wired to become excited and then highly gratified by sex, it is much more likely that they will be active and avid participants in the preservation of the species. The physical purpose of the female orgasm is to cause muscle contractions to [...]

There are many types of female orgasms. The two most popular are the clitoral orgasm and the vaginal orgasm.
The clitoral orgasm can be achieved by rubbing her clitoris with your finger, or by licking her clitoris with your tongue.
The vaginal orgasm can be achieved by intercourse, or by using your finger or a dildo to [...]

Most women use their finger or a vibrator when they masturbate. They usually have a favorite way to do it that they have become very accustomed to.
You can masturbate her in the same way. It will always feel better when you do it than when she does it. At least if you do it right. [...]

For proper cunnilingus, stick out and stiffen your upper lip. This supports the clitoris from above. Then stick out and stiffen your lower lip. This supports the clitoris from below. And then lick the clitoris up and down with your tongue.
This supports the clitoris from above and below, and provides more stimulation, and thus a [...]

After you lick her to the point where she is very aroused, then you make your lips into an “O” shape, and you suck her clit into your lips. Then hum while sucking her clit in and out of your lips. Drives ‘em wild!

This is a method of stimulating the clitoris by basically grabbing it between the tips of your forefinger and thumb. You hold the entire length of the clitoris between your thumb and forefinger and slide it up towards the patch and down towards the vagina.
Hold her labia open with the thumb and forefinger of your [...]

I learned this from a sexuality research group in San Francisco called “The Welcomed Consensus.” You can find them at welcomed.com.
I viewed a video from them called “Deliberate Orgasm.” The guy in the video showed how you must directly touch the naked tip of the clitoris at its one o’clock position (as looking AT the [...]

This demonstrates to her that her sexuality is brought to life when she surrenders herself to you! It benefits her for her to follow your commands, and to do as you say.

This also commands respect. She takes what you say much more seriously now. And as a result, she has more respect for you!
Remember, it’s not that you make her come, it’s that you have a lot to say about WHEN she comes.
Do you see how this is all so very powerful? It is effective sexual [...]

The tip of the clitoris is just the tip of the iceberg. The body of the clitoris extends down in a V shape to either side of the urethra and opening of the vagina, just under the labia.
Have your woman lie on her back with her legs open and knees bent. Sit next to her [...]

The area between the clitoris and the vagina, which includes the opening of the urethra, is called the U spot.
Many women find stimulation of the opening of the urethra to be irritating. But some women absolutely love it.
With one woman that I was dating, we were lying next to each other and talking and touching [...]

The vaginal orgasm is the female orgasm caused by stimulation of the vagina. Women describe it as “deeper” and “more fulfilling” than the clitoral orgasm.
While 70% of women have had a clitoral orgasm, only 30% of all women have ever had a vaginal orgasm.
Most women have used only clitoral stimulation when they masturbate. In fact, [...]

with only vaginal stimulation.
Now let’s discuss forms of vaginal stimulation. . . .

In 1880, Dr. Skene wrote of paraurethral glands (on either side) of the female urethra.
In 1944, Dr. Grafenberg and Dr. Dickinson wrote about an erogenous zone in the tissue located between 1) the front wall of the vagina and 2) where the urethra meets the bladder.
In 1950, Dr. Grafenberg wrote that this area enlarges with [...]

At its greatest depth, the inner diameter of the vagina increases. This area is no longer spongy, but instead smooth.
This area is called the “cavity of the cervix.” This area is shaped like the underside of a Frisbee, with the cervix in the center pointing downward. The outer edge of the Frisbee defines the deepest [...]

Many women find stimulation of the cervix to be irritating, especially when impaled by a penis during intercourse. That is a common complaint of women who are with an especially well endowed man.
But a few women love it. In fact, a select few women love getting their cervix pummeled during intercourse. This is most unusual, [...]

So let’s say you are dating a woman who has never had an orgasm. What are you going to do? You can’t rely on intercourse. All the guys before you have tried
that.
You can’t rely on licking her clit. All the guys before you have tried that.
And you can’t rely on rubbing her G spot. At [...]

You are going to be different in 2 ways:
1) You are going to perform a different type of stimulation
2) You are going to use effective mental techniques
The reason why you have to perform a different type of stimulation is because all the previous stimulation that she has felt has been associated with her NOT having [...]

Your goal of giving her an orgasm is your little secret. But how are you going to give her an orgasm without actually mentioning anything about orgasms?
You will simply give her pleasure.
You will say to her: “Baby, I just want to give you pleasure. It excites me when you feel this pleasure that I give [...]

You will say to her: “Oh Baby, it makes me feel so close to you when you feel this pleasure that I am giving you. The more pleasure you feel, the closer it makes me feel to you.”
She will follow your commands to accept the pleasure because she wants you to feel even closer to [...]

Say to her: “Baby, it pleases me when you feel the pleasure I am giving you. The more pleasure you feel, the more it pleases me.”
Now you set up for the final drive.
Say to her: “Do you feel safe with me Baby?” She will say yes.
Then say: “Do you trust me Baby?” She will say [...]

Take on the responsibility. As she feels more pleasure, continue to remind her to surrender to you.
If she does as you instruct, she will continue to orgasm.
After her orgasm subsides and she settles back down, hold her close and say: “Baby, I feel so close to you. I just cannot hold you close enough.” This [...]

All of the above can be used on a woman who is dependent on clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. For such a woman who has clitoral orgasms, but has never had a vaginal orgasm, she probably thinks that she is not one of the “lucky ones.” But at least you do not have to [...]

If nothing works, you are eventually going to have to mention orgasms, and her lack of having them. But do NOT blame it on her mind or her sexual organs.
One possibility is to blame it on her PC muscles.
The PC muscles are the pelvic floor muscles that connect from the pubic bone to the tail [...]

If nothing you do results in giving her an orgasm, then you are in a very difficult situation.
For one thing, do not come inside her in intercourse. If you do, then you are just like all the guys before you. Lame sex will get associated to you, just like it did to all the guys [...]

There are three main positions for intercourse: “missionary,” “doggy style,” and “woman on top.”
In Missionary, the woman lies on her back, and the man lies on top of her facing her. Missionary is good for intimacy. It is the best to start with.
In doggy style, the woman is on her hands and knees, and the [...]

I cannot say enough about Taoist Thrusting. It is extremely exciting for the woman. You absolutely need to be doing this.
It is actually called “The Nine Steps of the Taoist Thrust Method.” Its origin is in ancient Taoist sexuality. It was further refined by the seventh-century physician Li Tung-hsuan Tzu. It will drive her crazy.
When [...]

This is a very basic layman’s introduction to Tantric sex that can be done without practicing a long series of complicated rituals.
This exercise assumes that your woman is vaginally orgasmic. Take care of that first.
In Tantra, the goal is to extend the orgasm without “falling over the edge.” Tantra also brings both people in touch [...]

All women are multi orgasmic, some just don’t know it yet.
Women secrete prolactin at the time of orgasm, just like men do, but the hormone does not cause any refractory symptoms in a woman. There is no chemical or biological constraint on the number of orgasms a woman can have.
But most women have only one [...]

As I discussed earlier, there are many similarities between male and female sexual anatomy. Some of which make no contribution to procreation. One example is that men have nipples. Another is that women ejaculate.
Just as the male has a prostate gland, the female has paraurethral Skene glands.
Embryologically, the urethral glands of the female are homologous [...]

Before you begin, tell her to go empty her bladder. This will help to reduce her fears that she will pee on you.
Then get her comfortable on the bed. You will use stimulation of her deep spot. Do not do this in intercourse yet. First do this when you digitally stimulate her (with your fingers.) [...]

The PC muscles are strengthened by doing Kegel exercises. Strong healthy PC muscles are synonymous with a healthy vibrant sex life.
See the chapter near the end of this program called “Kegel exercises” for details on performing them. After just two weeks there will be a noticeable improvement.
Diagram of PC muscles
Her Kegel exercising will dramatically increase [...]

One of the most exciting things for a man is to fuck his woman up the ass. It is raunchy, it is taboo, it is animalistic, and it is one of the major demonstrations that his woman is ruthlessly sexually expressive.
For a woman, it can be one of the naughtiest things she can do. And [...]

One step at a time. . . .
This all happens over a course of several nights. You do this covertly. Your goal is your little secret.
Begin with stimulation of the BACK of the deep spot. Have her lie on her back. Use lots of Astroglide. With your palm facing down, use your middle finger to [...]

Fantasy is the perfect scenario for her “experiencing” anal sex without actually “doing” it. Once she experiences it in her mind, it will be much easier for her to experience it later “for real.”
Using fantasy, you can magnify the excitement of an activity. And for a woman, the activities that are exciting are the ones [...]

I have answered many questions from men who have had trouble making their girlfriend come.
Question:
A girlfriend of mine and I were discovering what makes her feel the best, as I am trying very hard to be the first guy to make her come, and I usually have little or no difficulty with that, however she [...]

There is nothing more natural than a man and a woman getting together. It’s what we were meant to do.
All social interaction between a man and a woman is sexual at the very core. It is the first criteria each judges the other on.
The man is the masculine compliment to her femininity. The woman is [...]

The lubricant on the slide to sex is romance and emotional intimacy.
Too many men are afraid of romance. That is because they are not comfortable with their own sexuality and the part they play in it.
Too many men are afraid of intimacy. This can be due to one of many reasons. Some are afraid that [...]

For her to feel sexy with you, she must feel like a woman. That means that you must be a MAN.
You must be comfortable with yourself. That means lack of self doubt. That means complete self assuredness.
Be comfortable with her. Be comfortable with that fact that she is a highly sexual being.
Treat her like a [...]

We as men tend to categorize women into two categories; do-able, and not do-able. If she is in the do-able category, and we have respect for her beyond just sex, then we become vulnerable to her relationship seduction. And women know that.
Most women would ultimately like to be in a fulfilling relationship with one man [...]

Women will go with what works for them at the time. You certainly do. If she finds a man who could be an exciting one night fling, she just might go for it. If she sees him as possible relationship material, she just might entertain that.
If you have always been presenting yourself as a one [...]

First, she needs to feel appreciated for the unique individual that she is. She needs to feel special, unlike any other woman.
Second, she needs to feel that deep intimate emotional connection. She needs to have that emotional intimacy with her man.
Third, she needs to feel like a woman. She needs to feel beautiful, sexy, and [...]

Burn that word into your brain. Consider that word in everything you do.
Command respect. Demand that you be treated with respect. Treat others with respect. Associate only with those people who treat you with respect. Be assertive when need be.
And finally, treat yourself with respect. Nobody is going to respect you unless you have respect [...]

Kegel exercises strengthen the PC muscles. The PC muscles are the pelvic floor muscles that connect from the pubic bone in the front to the tail bone in the back.
You know those muscles as the muscles you contract to stop a stream of urine midstream. She also knows them as that, but she also knows [...]