Penis Enlargement

During early fetal development both male and female fetuses start out being physically female; prior to the male fetus being able to produce its own hormones. The production of testosterone in male fetuses is not triggered until around the seventh or eighth week of fetal development; by the presence of the Y chromosome. This necessitates [...]

No matter what you find you need to do to experience orgasm, that orgasm is equal to one given to you by stimulation caused by your partner’s penis, which in general is very unlikely. If you judge the cause or nature of your orgasms you are doing yourself needless harm. If you need your stuffed [...]

Not having an erect penis to contend with allows women to masturbate fully clothed and in public. If you are having trouble masturbating to orgasm by touching your genitals directly, leave your cloths on and start walking about your home and press and rub your genitals against everything you see. Try rubbing against furniture, appliances, [...]

If you try to engage in a sexual activity, solo or with a partner, when you are not experiencing sexual desire, it is less likely to be an enjoyable experience. While sexual desire is not essential too arousal and orgasm, it certainly aids in the processes. If your body is not working with you, it [...]

The latest research indicates the possibility that all women produce female ejaculate, even if they are not aware of it. The expelled or released fluid is not urine, it is an alkaline liquid secreted by the paraurethral glands. The paraurethral glands produce an enzyme called prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP) and glucose (a sugar). These substances [...]

Female Body Fluids
Before discussing female ejaculation I will first address female body fluids in general. Our society, as well as most others, views all forms of liquid that are produced by the female body with great disdain. Women are not permitted to openly perform most normal bodily functions; it is not seen as being feminine. [...]

I will not profess to know the “10 Easy Steps to Orgasm.” Given the diversity of women and their individual experiences, there is no single solution to learning how to be an orgasmic woman. This is very much an individual journey. The path you take will depend on the path you are traveling now and [...]

Orgasm is the release of sexual tension in the body. Sexual tension develops as a result of mental and physical sexual stimulation. There is another form of tension that results from negative feelings within ourselves towards things around us, negative tension. Negative tension is a defensive mechanism. If your body is in a defensive mode [...]

How does one locate these paraurethral glands? Quite simply, you locate the urethra. The urethral opening is located directly above the vaginal opening, below the clitoris. You can see it with your bare eyes; though it can be hard to find in some cases. The urethra extends back from the urethral opening, urethral meatus, into [...]

The amount of fluid released by the paraurethral glands is reported to vary from a couple drops to almost two cups, 15 ounces [444 ml]. Two cups is a lot of liquid, can it really be that much? The paraurethral glands surround the urethra in an area about half an inch [1.25 cm] in diameter [...]

If a woman waits or is not permitted until she is twenty-years-old to learn to be orgasmic, the nerve pathways that carry sexual stimulation to the brain may have never developed or they are weakened by lack of use. If this is true, the nerve pathways may not be able to carry signals, electrical impulses, [...]

It is highly recommended that you get a mirror and look at your vulva and learn what is there. You should do this on a regular basis, to keep tabs on your genital health; when you do your monthly breast exam do a vulvar exam too. Identify all your bits and pieces. Yes, it can [...]

Moving on to ejaculation only requires a couple slight changes in technique. Empty your bladder first; you will want to let go without a full bladder producing the pressure or urge. The urge should still develop, just not be the result of a full bladder. The urge to ejaculate may not occur without there being [...]

One of the best ways to learn how to masturbate is by reading what other women have to say about their individual masturbation technique(s), and how they went about learning them. Every woman’s masturbation technique is unique, so the more methods you read about, the better prepared you will be to discover your own unique [...]

Since boys are taught at an early age to hold their penis when urinating, men are often much more comfortable touching and holding their genitals than women. Girls and women often learn not to touch their vulva directly, toilet paper or a wash cloth always separates their hand from their vulva, and they are required [...]

If you are pre-orgasmic, do not engage vaginal intercourse with your partner, at least not on a regular basis. The reason being, the majority of women do not experience orgasm as a result of vaginal stimulation alone. It is an activity where your partner is more likely to experience orgasm than you, and may cause [...]

Blood flow is essential to sexual arousal and vaginal lubrication. While nerve impulses may start the arousal process, blood carries the chemicals that allow the physical aspects of arousal to occur. If a woman does not have adequate blood flow to her vulva and vagina, she may have trouble experiencing arousal and orgasm. Without the [...]

I hate to be the barer of bad news, but the chances are, the women seen ejaculating in adult movies are most likely urinating, not ejaculating. They are intentionally squirting urine to simulate orgasm and true female ejaculation. The proof of this is the shear volume they expel. True ejaculation is almost impossible to capture [...]

You should learn how to release negative tension if you cannot avoid it all together, which is very unlikely for the average person in our fast paced lives. The simplest and quickest way is through deep breathing. Close your eyes, breath deeply in through your nose, hold for a couple seconds, exhale deeply through your [...]

Sexual fantasy is often essential to masturbation and orgasm. It is often the missing ingredient in many women’s masturbation sessions. They think about what they are doing or trying to achieve, not something that turns them on. You have to be able to openly think about sex and create a fantasy world if you are [...]

Unfortunately, there can be some negative side affects to massaging the urethra. The urethra is highly sensitive and is easily irritated. Even normal intercourse can irritate a woman’s urethra, resulting in painful urination and infection. This is especially true of virgins and women with tense pelvic muscles as they are too tight, resulting in there [...]

When we are born, orgasm is a reflex response to sexual stimulation. If our body experiences sufficient sexual stimulation and as a result sexual tension develops, we will experience orgasm. As we grow older, orgasm becomes a conditional response. All the negative feelings and ideas we have learned from society about our body, masturbation, and [...]

The clitoris probably holds the key to female ejaculation for most women. If the clitoris is not stimulated a woman is less likely to become highly aroused. If she is not highly aroused, her paraurethral glands will not fill with fluid. If her paraurethral glands are not swollen she may not have a G spot. [...]

Since the physical act of female urination is so similar to female ejaculation, many women have found erotic enjoyment in urinating during sex, solo and with a partner. Women seeking to learn to ejaculate may find themselves squirting urine versus actually ejaculating, not being able to tell them apart. This is because both urination and [...]

Since the female pararethral glands do not have the same structure as the male prostate, it is not really appropriate to say women have a prostate gland. The female paraurethral glands do not form together into a single gland that drains through two ducts into the urethra as in the case of the male. The [...]

A possible disadvantage a twenty-year-old woman may experience that a newborn girl may not is that the nerve pathways that carry the sexual stimuli to the brain have lain dormant her entire life. What happens when we do not use a body part for an extended period of time? It shrinks, becomes unresponsive and perhaps [...]

If you enjoy touching yourself with your fingers and can orgasm that way wonderful, but even then there may be times when you may want to experience the quick release a vibrator can provide. If you are trying to learn how to experience orgasm but your fingers get tired before you do, then try a [...]

In the illustration shown at the top of the page, the tissue surrounding the urethra is labeled as the “urethral sponge;” the paraurethal glands are imbedded in this tissue. The tissue surrounding the female urethra is thought by many to be the same as that surrounding the male urethra; corpus spongiosum. The tissue surrounding the [...]

Defining the “Grafenberg spot” or “G spot” is not a simple task. Most would simply say it is an area of high sensitivity located within the paraurethral structures. The problem with this definition is, the sensitivity of this area is not likely to be constant. If a woman is not sexually aroused, she may not [...]

A woman’s partner can bring her to an orgasm that includes ejaculation. If a woman already knows she is capable of ejaculating, she should let her partner know, not pray that it will not happen again. She should discuss the increased wetness that occurs with her partner; at least prepare them for it. Hopefully they [...]

If you are not experiencing orgasm during your sexual activities you may believe there is no common ground between you and your peers. This may cause you to feel alone and isolated, with no one to turn to for guidance and support. You most likely have been led believe everyone else is experiencing mind-blowing orgasms [...]