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Orgasm: Did She?

Thursday, October 2, 2008 21:19 No Comments

Of Course I Did!
One of the most inappropriate questions to ask a woman after you have made love to her is reported to be, “Did you have an orgasm?” A woman’s likely response to this question will be, “Well of course I did!” or “If you really cared about me you would know!” That is [...]

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Communication

Thursday, October 2, 2008 21:18 No Comments

If after sex a woman did not have an orgasm, even though she wanted to, she needs to communicate this to her partner. The couple needs to address ways of preventing this in the future, when possible. Perhaps during or after dinner the next day the woman can ask her partner if they can “discuss” [...]

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Eliminate the Need to Ask

Thursday, October 2, 2008 21:18 No Comments

What if orgasm does occur? If a woman does have an orgasm, she needs to communicate this to her partner, not expect them to know intuitively. She can simply state, “I had an orgasm.” or “Thanks for the wonderful orgasm.” She should not expect her partner to know that she did, even if she thinks [...]

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Learning to Fake It!

Thursday, October 2, 2008 21:18 No Comments

Add to this the fact that most young men and women have no idea what a woman looks, sounds, and feels like during orgasm because they have never been taught this information. If anything, society makes every effort to prevent young people from having access to it. We consider it abnormal and harmful if a [...]

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Perception of Orgasm

Thursday, October 2, 2008 21:17 No Comments

Despite our expectations, it is not always easy to tell if a woman has had an orgasm. Few women present all the classic signs of sexual arousal and orgasm as presented in textbooks and on this website. Even if they do, it is hard to be aware of them during sexual passion. These indications of [...]

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Taking Responsibility

Thursday, October 2, 2008 21:17 No Comments

The primary thing that must occur is for a woman to take responsibility for her sexual pleasure and satisfaction. She cannot leave it to chance or dream of finding her knight in shining armor, they usually only exist in fairy tales. Each woman must decide how important her sexual pleasure is to her. The more [...]

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There is More to Sex than Orgasm

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Orgasm is simply a form of sexual pleasure, not necessarily the most ideal form. Having an orgasm does not mean you will experience intense sexual pleasure or achieve sexual fulfillment. Giving your partner an orgasm does not make you a great lover. Yes, orgasm can feel great and make life more enjoyable, but one must [...]

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What Does She Want and Need?

Thursday, October 2, 2008 21:16 No Comments

Once you accept that you do not know what her needs are, you must find out what they are. How do you do that? Many would say read a book about female sexuality, or perhaps visit a website such as this one. The problem with that is, your partner probably did not write that book [...]

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Whose Pleasure is it Anyways?

Thursday, October 2, 2008 21:16 No Comments

What should a woman’s partner do? They must acknowledge and accept that her pleasure and orgasms are for her benefit, not their own. Increasingly, men and women expect women to orgasm on command. They want women to orgasm quickly and repeatedly during every sexual experience. Not simply because they want to give their partner pleasure, [...]

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