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One of the most common subjects I receive questions concerning is virginity. Young men and women often want to know what to do and what to expect when they have intercourse (i.e. vaginal-penile) for the first time. Given the social significance of this event in a person’s life, it is surprising how little factual information [...]

Any person who desires to engage in intercourse should first ask himself or herself if they want to have a child with their partner. This applies to all women, and men, of reproductive age. Becoming pregnant is NOT a “miracle” for the vast majority of teens and women. Most teens and women are VERY fertile [...]

A woman’s first experience(s) with intercourse are often a let down emotionally. Physical pleasure may be absent, and orgasm is most often absent. The actual experience may not live up to the hype. Afterwards she may not feel any different than she did before. On the other hand it is seldom a traumatic experience even [...]

Before any young woman considers engaging in vaginal intercourse she should have already developed the following sexual skills and knowledge.
• Self Awareness: A girl or woman should first learn about her own body before all else. This means not only knowing where your clitoris is, but also what is looks like and how it responds [...]

How does a couple have intercourse for the first time? The desired place and time have been described above. The room should be adequately lit for the couple to see what they are doing but probably not so brightly lit that you can read a book. Candles may add a nice romantic touch. Do not [...]

A healthy vagina is one that is both strong and flexible. In addition to dilating and stretching the vaginal and pelvic muscles they should also be strengthened. The vagina of a virgin is tight because the muscles are atrophied not because they are strong. If the vaginal and pelvic muscles are not strengthened as they [...]

The above discussion of virginity and a woman’s first experience with intercourse applies to all women regardless of their sexual orientation. The gender of the woman’s partner has been left undefined whenever possible, and while the reader may assume the penis is flesh and blood, it may just as well be made of silicone, stone, [...]

It appears that in order to persuade young women not to engage in sex and intercourse our society has employed scare tactics. Society has tried to make teens fearful of their first experience by leading them to believe it will be painful and bloody. If you know it will be so, you are less likely [...]

After both partners have had at least one orgasm they can precede to intercourse. At this point she can sit on her partner’s thighs with their penis before her. She should then start to masturbate or her partner can start to caress her vulva and clitoris. A vibrator can be used if that is what [...]

There are definitely situations when young women should not become sexually active. There is no reason for a young woman to feel she “has to” engage in sex. If she does feel this way, there is something terribly wrong with the situation. If someone is telling you, you “should” or that you “have to,” you [...]

I do not wish the reader to feel I have anything against vaginal intercourse or penetration. I just do not feel it is appropriate for society to place so much emphasis on this one aspect of human sexuality. Sex is more than just intercourse. It is not appropriate to define heterosexuality as penile-vaginal intercourse. A [...]

The current female sexuality paradigm suggests that all a young woman needs to do to prepare to become sexually active is to spread her legs. While this is a crude statement, it effectively defines our concept of female sexuality. We expect a woman to receive all her sexual pleasure from her partner’s penis. As a [...]

Western society has a preoccupation with intercourse that no longer benefits our society, specifically female sexuality. Intercourse is great for reproduction, having babies, but it does not necessarily benefit a woman seeking sexual pleasure and sexual fulfillment. This is partly because all other forms of sexuality and sexual activity have been defined as something other [...]

At the start of intercourse a woman’s partner is poised at the gate to her castle with a battering ram. Obviously, it is easier for them to enter if she opens the gate herself. Since a woman needs to make room within her body for her partner’s penis, she should be in control of intercourse [...]

A word of advise for “virgin brides,” and any women who postpones engaging in all forms of sexual activity until they are in their twenties or later. Women who do so often value their virginity greatly or else they would not have waited so long to become sexually active. As such it means a lot [...]

At what age should a girl or woman be before starting to explore sex? The social mores of each girl’s family, community, and society will likely determine when she is permitted to become sexually active. Western society certainly does not permit girls to be sexually active right out of the womb. Two factors, puberty and [...]

A girl or woman who has not permitted a male partner to insert his penis into her vagina is commonly accepted to be a virgin. Others define a virgin as any girl or woman who has not had sexual contact with another person, and who has not explored her own body as well. Strict religious [...]

There can be several factors that can combine to make not only the first time but also the first few times painful or uncomfortable. Women who have not engaged in intercourse for an extended period of time may find themselves in the same situation. The potential causes for pain and discomfort are listed below. They [...]