Archive for the ‘Attract Women’ Category
Initiate
Thursday, January 1, 2009 12:15 No CommentsChances are, women won’t arbitrarily flirt with you on the street. They won’t offer their bodies to you. They won’t approach you and ask for your number. You have to initiate meeting women. Once you meet a woman she will decide if she wants to further the relationship. If you exchange numbers, you still must [...]
Educate
Thursday, January 1, 2009 21:25 No CommentsYou need to educate yourself on both women and men, and how their minds work. The more you know about women, the better your chances are for success. If you know how women think, and what they want, then you have the power to respond and behave in ways that will attract any woman. By [...]
Persevere
Saturday, January 10, 2009 12:17 No CommentsAs you begin your journey into the world of dating you will still be learning approach techniques and you should try to figure out what works best for you. This means trying the techniques in this book, and adapting them to your personal style. You will no doubt make changes in your appearance an [...]
Who You Are And Who You Want
Thursday, January 15, 2009 12:18 No CommentsYou deserve the best woman out there for you. If you are like most guys I know, you don’t have her yet. This means You Need a Plan. You may need a plan to find a woman, to improve your current girlfriend, or to replace the woman you have. Any woman you’re with should bring [...]
Collect Information
Tuesday, January 20, 2009 12:19 No CommentsHave you ever seen a picture of a well-dressed guy in a magazine and thought you’d like to look like him? Or of a woman you could see yourself being with? Well, all these pictures, photos, advertisements, need to be collected and saved! Use these images as incentives to realize your goals. Imagine yourself looking [...]
The Future is in Your Hands
Friday, January 23, 2009 12:19 No CommentsNothing about meeting an attractive woman and winning her favor is luck. You are in charge of your life. Where you are and who your friends are is a direct result of your life choices. The people you know are people you have attracted. You create these relationships, consciously or not, and you have [...]
Get a pen and start writing
Thursday, January 29, 2009 12:20 No CommentsWrite a physical description of yourself. Include your age, height, weight, physical build, and personality. Be sure to describe who you ARE, and not who you think you are, or who you think you should be. Build a realistic description of who YOU are and what you represent. Be honest with yourself, and go [...]
Focus on What You Want
Monday, February 2, 2009 12:21 No CommentsWhat you think about and focus on is, inevitably, what you are going to get out of life. You have to think about new ideas, new goals and new women, or your mind and behavior will exhibit the old ideas, patterns and people. If you don’t focus on and visualize the woman of your dreams [...]
Define Your Desires
Saturday, February 7, 2009 12:21 No CommentsNow we find out what kind of woman you are really looking for. Start by writing down a detailed and realistic physical description of her. Is she tall or short? Thin or big-boned? Does she have short or long hair? Is she sexy, exotic, and alluring? Is she the girl-next-door type? Does she have a [...]
First Things First
Wednesday, February 11, 2009 12:22 No CommentsWithin three minutes of meeting her, a woman will evaluate you, judge you and stereotype you by your first impression. Despite this being an unreasonable way to judge a person, women do this to almost every man she meets.
Make those first crucial minutes work FOR you, not against you. What is communicated and observed during [...]
Look Your Best… Always!
Thursday, February 19, 2009 12:22 No CommentsYou should always take the time to look your best whenever you go out. You never know when you may have the opportunity to meet a stunning, beautiful woman – the grocery store, Laundromat, or coffee shop.
Be sure to pay attention to the whole outfit. It’s worth the extra money to buy your self [...]
Refine Your Grooming Regime
Friday, February 27, 2009 12:23 No CommentsWomen notice every little thing about a man’s grooming. Every time they see a guy they go through a mental checklist. Is his hair washed and styled? Are his fingernails clean or manicured? Are his shoes polished? Clothes clean? Is he bathed? Does he smell good? These things really matter to women! Clean and neat [...]
Build Your Confidence
Sunday, March 1, 2009 12:24 No CommentsNo matter where you are in your life, you should always know who you want to be. To build your self-confidence you need to know who you are, know where you are going, and be actively involved in making your goals reality. If you don’t like something about yourself, or you want to try something [...]
Give Her a Little Romance
Friday, March 6, 2009 12:25 No CommentsRomance is attractive. It’s a little well-known fact that women love to be adored. Being romantic is easier than you think, too! It often means just doing the little things. Surprise her with a single flower or a note in her pocket, take her chicken soup when she’s sick, or tell her a song reminds [...]
DON ‘T Gawk at Women
Sunday, March 15, 2009 12:26 No CommentsIf you stare at a woman’s body, she will automatically be turned off and decide you are someone she does not want to be with. This does not mean you can’t appreciate the rest of her – her clothing, her stride, her gorgeous facial features. This means that you must check out her body with [...]
DON’T Lie or Betray Women
Saturday, March 28, 2009 12:27 No CommentsIf you are ever caught in a lie you might as well say goodbye to the woman that catches you. Women consider trust a major factor in a healthy relationship. If she catches you betraying her trust, she will assume that everything you have ever said is a lie, and she will no longer believe [...]
Organized Dating Groups
Sunday, April 12, 2009 12:27 No CommentsOrganized dating services can be great, provided they aren’t too expensive. You shouldn’t waste your time and money on telephone dating hotlines, or on classified personals, because you can’t see what you’re getting involved with. It’s better to have a photo of her or to interact casually with a woman before actually asking her out. [...]
Shotgun Theory
Saturday, April 25, 2009 12:28 No CommentsThe Shotgun Theory emphasizes hitting as many targets as possible. This theory is perfect for hitting on women, and it can also effect your success when job hunting. You want the biggest spread! So, what does this mean to your dating approach? Talk to every woman you find attractive! Wherever you are, wherever you go, [...]
Coffee Shops
Friday, May 1, 2009 12:28 No CommentsBelieve it or not, coffee shops are prime locations to hook up with a woman. The caffeine has a big part in this, as it triggers the pleasure center of the brain by releasing a substance in the body called phenyl ethylamine. The coffee creates a body rush – her breathing will quicken, as will [...]
How to Target Your Dream Woman
Friday, May 15, 2009 12:29 No CommentsFollowing is your best chance of meeting the woman of your desires. You need to figure out where your ideal woman will spend her time, where she socializes, where she might shop, and in what clubs or organizations she might be a member. Now, you put your self in these places. Spend time in stores [...]
How To Seduce Women
Monday, May 25, 2009 12:30 No CommentsOnce you find a woman you’d like to approach, you must know how to make initial contact with her. Once you achieve recognition, you have to be able to read her signals – do you continue your approach? Or do you take the red flag and get out of the game? This chapter is devoted [...]
Recognition and Flirting
Wednesday, June 3, 2009 12:30 No CommentsObjective: Find Her, Acknowledge Her, Interpret Her Response
This stage is includes checking out your surroundings, observing all the potential target women, and deciding which woman you would like to pick up. Once you decide whom you will target, you must let her know that you are interested. You can do this by making eye contact [...]
Conversation
Wednesday, June 17, 2009 12:31 No CommentsObjective: Approach Her, Talk to Her, Make Arrangements to See Her Again
From this point onwards, your success lies in your ability to verbally communicate with your targeted woman. She has already given you approval to approach her, now you have a chance to win her approval to see her again. The best way to be [...]
Obvious Flirting Behavior
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsEven if you aren’t very good at reading body positions, you can’t go wrong if you notice some or all of the following behavior:
She may tilt her head to one side, or looks at you then looks down, which indicates submission;
She may run her fingers through her hair;
She may straighten her clothing or adjust in [...]
How To Get And Execute A Date
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsOnce you start a conversation with a woman, you need to get her vitals. (You know all about getting her vitals from Chapter 8.) The most important piece of information to get is a means of future communication. You need to be able to get in touch with this woman to set up a date [...]
Where to Go on a Date
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsAn active approach to the first date usually works well for personal interaction and comfort levels. If you are both having fun then you’ll both be more receptive to the other person. The better time you have with her on the first date, the more time she will want to spend with you in the [...]
How To Talk With Women
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsNow that you have learned how to use non-verbal language to attract, approach, and seduce women it is time to figure out how to talk with women. When talking with a woman, you want her to feel a connection with you. A woman wants a man to understand what she is saying, and men want [...]
Chemistry
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsObjective: Physical Contact
This stage is based on creating a connection with a woman. She has to trust you, and be able to communicate with you. This connection can be made in seconds, or it might take a few dates, or it may never happen. In Chapter 11 you will learn effective techniques for building this [...]
Get Her Vitals
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsBefore we discuss how to talk to women, let us talk about what the conversation should get us. When you first meet a woman, there are three pieces of personal information you must get from her. The whole basis of your relationship depends on getting this information. Success or failure at this task will [...]
Use Your Body Language Effectively
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsThis is called Flirting. Flirting is extremely important when communicating with women that you intend to pick up. Everyone can flirt, but not all can flirt successfully. You will soon be able to flirt with women and achieve great results! This chapter is full of suggestions for Effective flirting.
To become an expert at flirting you [...]
Be Confident in Your Approach
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsWhen it comes right down to asking for her number, always be self-assured and direct. Being direct also helps with your credibility. You don’t want to be shy when you make your move. Prove to her that you know what you want, and that what you want is to take her out. Use simple, straightforward [...]
Discuss the Situation
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsAnother aspect to consider is where you are, or the event you are both attending. Using location to open a conversation is already personalized because you are both in the same place. If it is a party, you can always talk about someone else – maybe there is one very drunk guy who is making [...]
Reading Her Body Language
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsWhen reading a woman’s body language, be sure to consider all body movements, facial expressions and even her verbal communication to other people. Women are not very good at hiding their feelings. Their feelings are expressed obviously, provided you can read what her body language is saying. Women always convey what they are feeling through [...]
Making the Call
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsWhen you do finally make the call, and you have her on the line, what are you going to say? What are your goals of this phone call? It doesn’t take much time to make a few notes to your-self before hand. Write down what you want to say to her before you call her. [...]
Remember That…
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsEvery time you engage in a conversation with a new prospect, you will be trying to get her vitals. You also need to find out if she is actually single, and if she is looking to meet someone. Most women will give you an honest answer if you ask her if she is single. You [...]
Use a Compliment
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsEvery woman needs to feel appreciated. An honest compliment is an easy way to show your appreciation for her and the care she takes to look good. Compliment her outfit, her hair, her eyes, or her manicured fingernails – something specific about her that you are attracted to. A compliment can work great for opening [...]
The Basics
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsNow that you know about getting a woman’s vitals, you need to know how to talk to her. This can be harder than it sounds. When you try to compare the way men talk to each other and the way women talk to each other it’s like comparing apples and oranges.
Men talk facts, women talk [...]
Your Second Date
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsProvided you liked her enough to ask for a second date, now is the time to turn on the charm and to start really showing your interest. The second date is usually when the sexual chemistry starts to build and the attraction grows. This date should be more intimate and romantic. Don’t be hesitant to [...]
Smile
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsA great smile will tell a woman a lot about you: you are sociable, you are friendly, and you are happy. Smiling is easy and effective with women. It will put a woman at ease, and she won’t feel threatened by you. When you smile at a woman you are sending her the message that [...]
How To Use Power And Suggestion Of Body Language
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsThe man with the greatest chance for success with a woman is a man who can attract her, approach her, and seduce her by using both verbal and non-verbal language. This chapter is all about body language – yours and hers. You need to know how your body language influences her reactions and opinions toward [...]
Your Goal
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsThere is one main reason you are talking to this woman – the chance you will get sexual with her. Maybe you want a relationship, maybe a one-night stand, but ultimately you want sex. You aren’t talking to her because you really want to learn more about her or carry on a conversation.
You are using [...]
Ensure Success Tonight
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsNow that you know about women’s behavior and body language, you need to know how to find the woman who is looking for the same thing you are – to meet someone tonight. This woman will be looking hot and desirable.
Typically, she will wear clothes that show off her female form. She may draw attention [...]
Ask Her a General Question
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsTried, tested, and trued. This technique is a simple, effective way to engage in conversation with an attractive woman. Look at the woman you want to talk to and ask her any question – from “Do you have the time?” to “How do you like the snow?” (Weather permitting, of course!) It is better to [...]
Your First Date
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsThis is the first real opportunity to get to know this woman. You want to be involved in a casual and fun activity that allows interaction with her. You want to find out if she is someone you’d like to go out with again. She will be figuring out that same thing, so you want [...]
Personal Space
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsYou have to set the stage for exchanging body language with a woman. The best way to do this is it to position yourself within reasonable proximity to her. Once you see a woman you are interested in you should turn to face her. Make sure that you are in her line of vision, so [...]
Get Her Number, Even if She Has Yours
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsDespite the fact that you have given a woman your card, you should always try to get her number. It comes back to the whole initiation thing… she might never call you if you give her your number, but you will surely make the first move to call her. You really want to go out [...]
How To Successfully Approach Women
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsApproaching women doesn’t have to be difficult. You might think that there are a million different things to know about your approach, but that isn’t the case. It is true that there are many different situations where you could approach a woman but these situations share a number of factors. It is possible to [...]
Your Third Date
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsIf you have gotten a third date with a woman, chances are good that she wants to take your relationship further. This is the date that will determine your future with this woman. One of three things will happen: you will start kissing her, and take her to bed; you will kiss and make out [...]
Use a Conversation Piece
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsThis type of comment or question involves observing her, and her possessions and drawing a conclusion – correct or incorrect, it doesn’t matter – and using it to start a conversation with a woman. Always look at the woman you are interested in to see if she is wearing or carrying anything [...]
What NOT to Say
Monday, June 22, 2009 0:00 No CommentsWhen you first meet a woman, you want to give her your best impression. When you read Chapter 3 What Women Want you learned the importance of a good first impression. This is when you want to portray your most attractive qualities. You don’t want to be rude, obnoxious, or degrading in front of a [...]


