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Another gentle habit of the gentle sex that, unfortunately, drives men stark raving berserk is that she hints at something she wants, or she turns it into the form of a tentative gentle question.
I was on a Sunday outing last fall with a couple who had just started dating each other. Susan and Jake were [...]

” I don’t get it.. I’m attractive, smart, sensitive, accomplished. Why doesn’t he or she flip for me? Why can’t I find love?” How many times have you beat your fists on the pillow asking yourself this question?
You open this book skeptically, yet harboring hope, for the solution. You read the title: How to Make [...]

After she threw out that cherry, you should have asked, “Oh, do you have a garden?” Maybe she has a vegetable garden, a roof garden, a hanging garden, or a victory garden. Maybe she has no garden at all but just loves plants. You don’t know yet, but you do know that plants are somehow [...]

Conversation is like music. Your first conversation can be a beautiful concert where all the notes fall into place, bringing joy and harmony to your Quarry’s heart. Or you can inadvertently utter discordant notes that make your Quarry tune out thoughts of love.
So far we’ve talked about the dance (the body movements and choreography) to [...]

Whatls good for the gander can be ghastly for the goose. Several years ago I learned this the hard way. A friend of mine, George, was at my house helping me with renovations. On that Saturday afternoon he was in the kitchen putting down some new molding. Meanwhile I was in the living room struggling [...]

Get ready for a pretty surprising statistic. Therapists report that about 90 percent of men have a secret desire they’ve never shared with their wives or significant others. The New York Times reported in a headline that “Much Is Found Perverse.”53 We’ll get to that subject later, but for the moment let’s talk about the [...]

Let’s say you get lucky tomorrow and spot a Potential Love Partner. He or she is sitting on the steps reading a book. Or standing in a museum studying a painting. Or getting on the bus. Or waiting in line at the bank cash machine.
You sneak a second peek. Something about the stranger revs up [...]

A skillful ego massage is not just giving compliments. It is gaining a thorough understanding of your Quarry’s self-image and then fostering it. Your Quarry’s ideal self-image is crucial data in planning your menu to nourish his or her ego and thus win his or her love.
Not everyone wants to feel brilliant or beautiful. There [...]

During a heated argument, a man I once loved snarled at me, “Everybody’s got a value on the open market, baby.” I was appalled. How crass! How could he see people as commodities, especially somebody he said he loved? What a repulsive way to look at relationships!
To me, love was beautiful. Love was pure. It [...]

Every now and then Huntresses eat their hearts out and tear their hair out over confirmed bachelor Quarry—the older, attractive man who is single and never been married. You’ve met the type. You’d think he could have his pick. He dates beautiful women and he has affairs with them. But his relationships never last more [...]

Let’s look at the studies and see what works. A researcher named Monica Moore heard that women made two-thirds of the approaches and wanted to find out exactly how they did so. She set up a study where she observed more than two hundred women at a party and recorded what are scientifically known as [...]

The Golden Rule tells us, “Do unto others that which you would have done unto you.” Good advice with your coworkers nine-to-five daytime and with your friends five-to-nine in the evening. But after you bring in the dog, put out the cat, switch off the lights, and hop into bed with your lover—forget it!
The Golden [...]

Here’s another conversational trick to enhance intimacy. Usually, when talking with strangers, we keep our guard up. We don’t readily disclose personal information about ourselves.
But, gradually, as we become more intimate with someone, we give away little pieces of ourselves like a gift. We might tell a friend or lover that we have a terrible [...]

Obviously it’s neither possible nor practical to suggest an outing where you make your date cross a scary bridge. But science tells us, if your first experience together is stirring, your date will transfer the strong emotions to you.
Hunters, you could take her horseback riding or surfing. If these physical activities are too strenuous, choose [...]

” Where,” you might well ask, “does the purity, the beauty, and the selfless kind of love come in? What about couples who pledge eternal love, till death do us part—and mean it?”
We can, of course, achieve that beautiful love in time. Actually, the lyric love Robert Burns wrote about and the fundamentally practical, egocentric [...]

Beauty is not an objective entity. Like the proverbial sound in the forest which must be heard to be a sound, beauty has to be beheld by someone to be beauty. Beauty is a perception, a judgment call. Hairstyle, clothing, and makeup aside (I leave that to other books), here’s how you can manipulate your [...]

How did men’s and women’s sexual desires differ? Vastly, when it came to their sexual fantasies, and even more vastly in what role they wanted their partners to play in their fantasies.
Essentially, men’s fantasies were more extreme and diverse than women’s were. Their desires were tied more to specific acts and attitudes. Their fantasies were [...]

I wasn’t content with simply relying on research. I needed to see if these techniques would work in the field. Several years ago, to test my theories, I created a seminar with the same title as this book, “How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You.” Invitations flowed in from all over the country [...]

How important are looks? Let me put it this way. After doing initial research for this chapter, it was a tough choice between plastic surgery or suicide.
Remember in high school when you asked about a blind date’s looks and your best friend said, “Oh, she’s got a great personality” or “He’s a really nice guy.” [...]

Let us leave the world of sexuality for a moment. Come with me to my second discipline, the field of communications. It is here I take the findings, and turn them into workable techniques to make someone fall in love with you. It has been proved beyond any doubt that there are ways to induce [...]

My own firsthand research, although less daring, was no less vigorous. For more than ten years, before becoming a communications consultant and trainer, I was director of a research group I founded called The Project.The Project was a New York City-based not-for-profit corporation established to explore sexuality and relationships. During my tenure with The Project, [...]

A British scientist determined that, on the average, when talking, people look at one another only 30 to 6o percent of the time. This is not enough to rev up the engines of love at first sight.
While he was still a graduate student at the University of Michigan, a prominent psychologist named Zick Rubin became [...]

Whenever one of my actress friends tells me she got the part, I can always tell from the degree of delight in her voice how she got it.
In the theater there is a custom called typecasting. It means getting cast in a movie or play just because you look the part. The traditional procedure for [...]

Let us now talk about a third technique with your initial organ of romance. This one gives your Quarry that primal, unsettling feeling that floods over people when they start to fall in love.
When conversing, people tend to look briefly away at the end of a sentence or during silences, except when they are engrossed [...]

Bedroom eyes is not just a quality movie stars are blessed with. Neither Bette Davis nor Clark Gable had a patent on them. We all have that suggestive look buried deep in our evolutionary psyche. Ethnologists have even named it the copulatory gaze. The copulatory gaze plays a big role in lovemaking. For example, before [...]

A man may be classified as a breast man, a buttocks man, or a leg man. And, although many women will insist otherwise, most women are certified butt watchers. (This is not just idle conjecture: a British study determined that these are people’s favorite eyeball destinations.)13
But researchers have ascertained that everybody is an eye person. [...]

Have you ever met anyone and immediately felt, “This person and I have a lot in common”? Instant charisma, instant chemistry, instant intimacy, instant liking.
Conversely, you might have met someone and thought, “This individual is from a different planet!” Instant apathy, instant indifference, instant coldness, instant dislike.
Every time you meet someone, you have sentiments ranging [...]

It’s frustrating to be chatting with an attractive stranger and get stuck in the small-talk rut. You are silently screaming out, “Gosh, I like you. I hope you like me, too. Here we are, making chitchat, but I want our discussion to be more interesting, more meaningful. What would you really like to talk about?”
I’ve [...]

First Impressions Last Forever
The first moment your Quarry lays eyes on you has awesome potency. The picture burns its way into his or her eyes and can stay emblazoned in your Quarry’s memory forever.
I have a dear friend, an older gentleman named Gerald, who is very sought after in the social scene of his hometown. [...]

Chalk it up as yet another drop in the ever-expanding ocean of gender differences. You will not thrill a woman if, on your first date, you embark on an inquisition about her sexual fantasies. A woman would probably misinterpret your asking “What turns you on?” too early in your relationship. You would sound crude. Additionally, [...]

Let me preface this by saying that I suffer no delusions that a few more paragraphs detailing what women want in bed is going to change male habits for womankind. Even the sex manuals’ explicit diagrams haven’t taught men how to gently massage her hot spot. The overwhelming evidence that women crave caressing, romance, passion, [...]

Huntresses, turnabout is fair play. If we expect the new man to put more romance in his sex, it’s only fair for the new woman to put more sex in her romance.
Any woman who has ever been in love knows one thing: Love makes good sex hotter. Any man who has ever been in love [...]

How do you find out what really turns a man on in bed? Most Huntresses just wing it with what we used to call the peter-meter. They try this, they try that, and then they watch his reaction. Some women do their research smack-dab in the middle of the action by asking, “Do you like [...]

Huntresses, we have heard many times that a man is visual when it comes to sex, but did you know he is also very auditory? Like a little kid listening to bedtime stories, a man loves to hear the magic words that turn him on—over, and over, and over again. I call them trigger words [...]

Huntresses, you may think the responsibility for the pickup rests on the man’s shoulders. Surprisingly enough, though, research shows that women initiate two-thirds of all encounters.
This, too, is part of nature’s grand design. In the animal kingdom, wannabe-lovers attract each other by hooting, crowing, or stomping the ground. They are more overt than Homo sapiens [...]

As your Quarry is speaking, the next step is for you to imply rapport. Let your Quarry know you understand and agree with what he or she is saying. Accomplish this by sprinkling noises or phrases of empathy, understanding, and sympathy—and occasionally your Quarry’s name—throughout your conversation.
You can make simple sounds such as “Um, hum” [...]

I remember once, as a very little girl, asking my mother what made a Mommy and a Daddy want to get married. She recited the following nursery rhyme to me.
Jack Spratt could eat no fat.
His wife could eat no lean.
So, between them both, you see,
They licked the platter clean.
For years, I felt that grownups always [...]

Did you see the 1977 movie Annie Hall? When Diane Keaton is out with Woody Allen for the first time, a little bubble comes out of her head, saying, “I hope he’s not a jerk like all the others.” During the first moments of meeting you, your Quarry is hoping the same about you.
Early love [...]

This final ego-massage technique concerns long-term love. It helps keep you in love with your Quarry because it keeps your Quarry doing the things you love. Love is a two-way street, and it’s hard to keep someone high on you if your affection for them sags.
Dr. Benjamin Spock is the famous baby doctor who in [...]

We spot the gender gap very early, in nursery schools and kindergartens all across America. In the middle of the room, little boys are bashing other little boys. Meanwhile, around the nursery, little girls are sharing toys and holding deep communion with other little girls.
Unfortunately, the same gap splits many middle-class parties of marrieds right [...]

So far, we’ve talked about increasing your market value through manipulating your Quarry’s impression of your physical appearance, possessions or money, and status or prestige. These are but the first three assets that equity principle scientists say influence love. They are important but, by no means, the most important. In fact, many people prefer the [...]

Science documents that the early body language of both partners is crucial to whether love will develop or not. One of the most tireless researchers in the laboratory of love was Dr. Timothy Perper, who spent more than two thousand grueling hours perched on stools of singles’ bars, scrutinizing men, women, and their early courting [...]

Loving someone, and being loved by this person, is a convoluted pattern of reward and punishment. We are happy when the person we love gives us gifts or does favors for us, and we receive equally as much joy doing the same for our beloved. But, according to the equity principle of love, somewhere buried [...]

Practically all men want to continue exploring their sexuality. They are tremendously turned on by a woman who is openminded enough to play.
At The Project I interviewed a man who had recently started dating his girlfriend, Tania. John said their lovemaking was exciting, and Tania seemed open to whatever he did. He was beginning to [...]

Some contemporary relationship counselors encourage couples to discuss their relationship openly and often. They suggest exploring their love through quizzes, exercises, and affirmations. This can be enlightening and beneficial. But only if both partners enjoy discussing relationship issues, and only if both partners have the same basic assumptions of what a relationship should be. If [...]

Women are more demanding than men in the qualities their partner must have. The recurring cry “There are no good men out there” does not literally mean there are no good men out there. It means there is a shortage of men who fill that particular woman’s definition of good. Hunters, keep in mind that [...]

Here is another delectable way to milk your Quarry’s ego and squeeze out the first drops of love, even before it’s suitable to give a full-blown compliment.
Happy, intimate couples share private jokes. They whisper phrases in each other’s ears that mean nothing to anyone in the world but themselves.
With no lengthy explanation, playwright Neil Simon [...]

Memorable.” Here’s the key: People find others who share their opinion irresistible.
I grew up reading Nancy Drew novels. Nancy was the young detective heroine whose life was so exciting. So glamorous. So romantic. So everything my teenage life wasn’t. Each book in the series began melodramatically: “Nancy, her long hair flowing in the wind, raced [...]

One can debate whether, as Shakespeare suggested, all the world’s a stage. But it’s indisputable that when an attractive stranger asks you (usually in the first five minutes), “And what do you do?” he or she is auditioning you for possible friendship. How you answer this question can make a big difference in what role [...]

If you want your Quarry to spill the beans, you must make him feel safe giving you an honest answer to the question,
” What turns you on?” Set the stage by letting him know that nothing would shock or turn you off. You will not be judgmental. You are a very open-minded woman and, in [...]

You are now in position for conversation. What should you first say to her? Abolish the words opening line from your thoughts. Generic lines come across just like that lines. After my love seminars, many a shy Hunter has asked me, “What’s a good opening line?” I find it charming that men ponder such dilemmas.
Once [...]

We have varying tastes in food, movies, books, hobbies, and vacation spots. In fact, we extol our unique choices in cuisine and cultural preferences. Yet almost everybody is hesitant to tell their partner precisely what he or she would like in bed.
Every month, magazines print sweeping generalizations about what “every” man wants or what “every” [...]

How many times have you sat by the phone offering your firstborn to the monastery if only he would call? Onetime offer, God. Act now. Please.
Then the phone rings. “Hello?”
It’s him! It’s him! God is good. “Would you like to go out with me Saturday evening?” he asks in dulcet tones.
You suppress a double back-flip. [...]

As little girls, we women were able to weave great webs of fairy-tale fantasies about the lives of our dolls, while little boys couldn’t ad lib an excuse when caught red-handed with their fists in the cookie jar. Today, the stream of consciousness for little girls of all ages, nine to ninety, still runs stronger.
This [...]

While writing this book, I excitedly told anyone who would listen that I was exploring what science says makes people fall in love. If my listeners were single and searching, I’d then ask them what type of partner they’d like to make fall in love with them. Sometimes, after the first wave of predictable answers [...]

Long before Sigmund Freud tackled the subject, analytical scientific minds agreed that love was basic to the human experience. But their rational brains also deemed that evaluating, classifying, and defining romantic love was impossible and therefore a waste of time and money. Freud went to his deathbed declaring, “We really know very little about love.”
His [...]

Have you ever been hungry for a nice big juicy steak? Let’s say today you are famished for a truly great one. As a gourmet steak lover, you know there are sixty-eight shades between very rare and well done, but tonight you want perfection. You go to the best steak house in town. You are [...]

Similarity is safe. Yet too much similarity, over time, becomes boring, so people seek differences, too. But here’s the rub: They only seek certain kinds of differences.
Lovers want qualities that are just different enough to keep the relationship interesting but not different enough to interfere with their own lifestyle. They choose partners who can give [...]

Not only should you be physically ready, you must keep your mental doors open to let love walk in . . . wherever you are. PLPS don’t just enter your life from parties and singles’ clubs.
Cindy is an attractive young manicurist who has been doing my nails for several years. (There must be some drug [...]

I. First Impressions
You Never Get a Second Chance at Love at First Sight
The first moments you spot your Quarry—and he or she gets a glimpse of you—can be decisive. Herein lies a ”go/no go” decision. Scientists tell us that love’s seeds are often sown during the first few minutes of a relationship. When two cats [...]

Most people praise their Quarry for something they like about him or her. But it’s much more potent when you compliment your Quarry for something he or she is really proud of.
Early in your conversation, start consciously gathering booster material. Carefully craft your praise so it darts directly, dead center, into your Quarry’s heart. This [...]

Step One: Nonverbal Signal After the two partners are within speaking range, one or the other makes his or her presence known (as described in the previous chapter) by a smile, a nod, or a glance.
Step Two: Talk One of the two then speaks. Perhaps he or she makes a comment or asks a question. [...]

Never let it be said that one tiny pebble was left unturned in the exploration of How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You. No thorough investigation would be complete without examining another passage to our Quarry’s heart—the nasal passage, or pheromones.
What?
Pheromones. Chemical body excretions. Body odors.
There has been much talk in recent years [...]

Biologists, as they watch animals spotting each other, sniffing, growling, hissing, nuzzling, and finally copulating, observe the same courtship rituals over and over. The identical patterns of proceptivity and aggression repeat themselves time and time again. If the pattern is broken, often copulation does not take place.
It is no different with Homo sapiens (that’s us), [...]

” Why Do My Insides Go All Funny?”
Falling in love is both a mental and a physical process. Some of the first techniques you will learn ignite your Quarry’s physical response to you before his or her brain catches up. We will put love through the brain-scanner and under the x-ray machine to examine what [...]

Many a Hunter, having beguiled his new Quarry into a first date, now wonders, “Where should I take her?” Many a Huntress, when asked where she would like to go, simply says, “Let’s go out to dinner.” This has always been my choice. Over dinner you can get to know your Potential Love Partner, and [...]

Another obvious class determinant is language. Talking rich does not mean flinging out fakeries like, “When my chauffeur drove me to Elizabeth Arden this morning in my Bentley . . .” It does mean paying attention to the words you drop. Avoid low-class klunkers.
Using euphemisms for certain words reveals lower stature. In England, where people [...]

After you’ve built a sound base of subconscious similarity with your Quarry, it’s time to show your affinity in three critical ways. The following similarities, or lack of them, will show up at various stages of your relationship.
Number one is conspicuous, unmistakable, and easy to create. It is what interests the two of you have. [...]

America the Beautiful is all the more so due to our cultural diversity. Happily, most people don’t speak comfortably of class or social status, but we have an undeniable richness and a variety of cultural backgrounds unknown anywhere else in the world.
Americans don’t advertise their class and money on their forehead like a high-caste Hindu [...]

Sometimes couples start out balanced, and inequity strikes after the marriage. If one of the partners, through no fault of his or her own, slips even a few notches, problems can arise.
I have a friend Laura, a TV reporter, who was thrilled when she found the man of her dreams. He was a kind and [...]

When answering researchers’ questions about women’s looks, men were less articulate. A typical answer was, “Uh, gee, well, you know [grunt, grunt], uh, good-looking.” However, a group of resolute scientists plodded on and zeroed in on what the average male considers attractive.
A group of men from various classes was shown photos of large-breasted nudes in [...]

The Dance of Intimacy takes two partners. Even when you are Quarry, you must remember the steps. Sadly, many potential relationships never get off the ground because, accidentally, the Quarry repels the Hunter with his or her body language.
Unlike deer or bear hunters, human Hunters and Huntresses suffer from a malady. It’s called insecurity or [...]

Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places
Single and divorced people, young and old, all across America are asking themselves as they brush their teeth in the morning, as they shave or put on makeup, as they touch up the grey in their hair, “Where are all the good men? Where are all the good [...]

Huntresses, he stops calling. Hunters, she suddenly develops other things she has to do on Saturday night. Why? What went wrong? Why did your Quarry lose interest? There are, of course, as many answers to that question as there are men and women in the world, but we can make some fairly accurate generalizations.
A survey [...]

As we’ve seen, like the rest of our personalities, practically all of our sexual needs and desires have their roots in childhood.
Under analysis their origins often come out, but some men don’t need analysis to trace their sexual fantasies to their roots.
Jerry remembers one time when he was about five years old. His big sister [...]

The most striking difference between men and women, however, as illustrated by the letters The Project received, is not in their actual fantasies but in what men and women want to do with their sexual fantasies.
It is curious to note that men’s and women’s fantasy desires were in direct contrast to their real-life stereotypes. In [...]

Each time you discharge an obvious compliment, your next shot loses power. Like they were Confederate dollars, your Quarry begins to devalue conspicuous compliments. You can use empathy, make approval noises, and imply your praise early with your Quarry. But save up for the killer compliment.
What is the killer compliment? It’s not, “Gee, I like [...]

Practically every young American girl of my generation tucked the covers daintily around herself every night dreaming of the handsome prince who was someday going to come riding by on his white horse. He would, of course, fall madly in love with her and scoop her up, and they would live happily ever after. The [...]

Hunters, huntresses, let me slap a discreet warning label on my previous recommendation of watching porn flicks. You might get the idea that every man wants a wanton woman slithering all over his body and every woman wants to be swept away and seduced by a handsome stranger on Tahiti’s shores. Not true. As with [...]