Archive for September, 2008

A Straight Line!” He Declares; “A Gentle Curve?” She Asks

Tuesday, September 30, 2008 22:35 No Comments

Another gentle habit of the gentle sex that, unfortunately, drives men stark raving berserk is that she hints at something she wants, or she turns it into the form of a tentative gentle question.
I was on a Sunday outing last fall with a couple who had just started dating each other. Susan and Jake were [...]

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Anyone? Yes, Practically Anyone

Tuesday, September 30, 2008 22:34 No Comments

” I don’t get it.. I’m attractive, smart, sensitive, accomplished. Why doesn’t he or she flip for me? Why can’t I find love?” How many times have you beat your fists on the pillow asking yourself this question?
You open this book skeptically, yet harboring hope, for the solution. You read the title: How to Make [...]

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CHERRY PICKING

Tuesday, September 30, 2008 22:34 No Comments

After she threw out that cherry, you should have asked, “Oh, do you have a garden?” Maybe she has a vegetable garden, a roof garden, a hanging garden, or a victory garden. Maybe she has no garden at all but just loves plants. You don’t know yet, but you do know that plants are somehow [...]

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Conversation Is Making Beautiful Music Together

Tuesday, September 30, 2008 22:34 No Comments

Conversation is like music. Your first conversation can be a beautiful concert where all the notes fall into place, bringing joy and harmony to your Quarry’s heart. Or you can inadvertently utter discordant notes that make your Quarry tune out thoughts of love.
So far we’ve talked about the dance (the body movements and choreography) to [...]

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Could You Give Me a Hand with This?

Tuesday, September 30, 2008 22:34 No Comments

Whatls good for the gander can be ghastly for the goose. Several years ago I learned this the hard way. A friend of mine, George, was at my house helping me with renovations. On that Saturday afternoon he was in the kitchen putting down some new molding. Meanwhile I was in the living room struggling [...]

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Do All Men Have a Sexual Secret?

Tuesday, September 30, 2008 22:33 No Comments

Get ready for a pretty surprising statistic. Therapists report that about 90 percent of men have a secret desire they’ve never shared with their wives or significant others. The New York Times reported in a headline that “Much Is Found Perverse.”53 We’ll get to that subject later, but for the moment let’s talk about the [...]

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Does Love At First Sight Exist?

Tuesday, September 30, 2008 22:33 No Comments

Let’s say you get lucky tomorrow and spot a Potential Love Partner. He or she is sitting on the steps reading a book. Or standing in a museum studying a painting. Or getting on the bus. Or waiting in line at the bank cash machine.
You sneak a second peek. Something about the stranger revs up [...]

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Ego Massage Is a Highly Skilled Craft

Tuesday, September 30, 2008 22:33 No Comments

A skillful ego massage is not just giving compliments. It is gaining a thorough understanding of your Quarry’s self-image and then fostering it. Your Quarry’s ideal self-image is crucial data in planning your menu to nourish his or her ego and thus win his or her love.
Not everyone wants to feel brilliant or beautiful. There [...]

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Everybodys Got a Market Value, Baby

Tuesday, September 30, 2008 22:32 No Comments

During a heated argument, a man I once loved snarled at me, “Everybody’s got a value on the open market, baby.” I was appalled. How crass! How could he see people as commodities, especially somebody he said he loved? What a repulsive way to look at relationships!
To me, love was beautiful. Love was pure. It [...]

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Finally, Snarinq the Confirmed Bachelor

Tuesday, September 30, 2008 22:32 No Comments

Every now and then Huntresses eat their hearts out and tear their hair out over confirmed bachelor Quarry—the older, attractive man who is single and never been married. You’ve met the type. You’d think he could have his pick. He dates beautiful women and he has affairs with them. But his relationships never last more [...]

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